Pubdate: Thu, 11 Jan 2001 Source: Modesto Bee, The (CA) Copyright: 2001 The Modesto Bee Contact: http://www.modbee.com/help/letters.html Website: http://www.modbee.com/ Author: Crystal Carreon, Bee Staff Writer DEATH HAUNTS SEPULVEDAS Every Sunday, the Sepulveda family goes to see "mijo." The family leaves its Highway Village home in north Modesto, and gather at his grave, in a northeast pocket of a Scenic Drive cemetery. It has been this way for the family for nearly four months. It will continue this way, the Sepulvedas say, for the rest of their lives. At the grave, Sonia Sepulveda kneels, silently wiping away the week's wear from the tombstone of her younger son, her "mijo." She rubs her frail fingers around the edges of his seventh-grade picture embedded in the granite. Over time, fresh roses, carnations and calla lilies have replaced the flowers that were taken to the grave from the altar that was erected in front of the Sepulveda home shortly after his death. Alberto Sepulveda Andrade would have celebrated his 12th birthday on Nov. 5. His mother would have made a cake for her "mijo," an affectionate term for son in Spanish. In December, the Sepulveda family would have festooned the home with holiday decorations. The Sepulvedas would have traveled to Mexicali, Mexico, along the border, to celebrate "posadas," Christmas and the new year with relatives. But there were no celebrations this year. No candles on the birthday cake. No holiday lights. Alberto was shot to death on the morning of Sept. 13 during a drug raid on his family's home. Wednesday, the Modesto Police Department released the first report into the shooting. It concludes, as police did from the start, that Alberto's death was an accident. No matter the outcome of the various investigations, people who know the Sepulvedas say it is not likely to bring closure. "They are inconsolable; I don't think there will ever be a day where they don't think about him, are sad about what happened to him and miss him," said Rosamaria Barajas, a legal assistant for San Francisco attorney Arturo J. Gonzalez, who represents the Sepulveda family. "They just keep asking: 'Why? Why? Why?' There are no answers." Family Life The Sepulvedas were unavailable for comment for this story, on the advice of their attorney. For insight into how the family is coping with Alberto's death, The Bee talked with Barajas, who said she has developed a close friendship with the family. Other comments came from people who see Moises Sepulveda daily at work. He operates Sepulveda's Auto Repair on Crows Landing Road in south Modesto. "He's always sad; I can see it in his eyes," said Araceli Paz Gomez, co-owner of Neon Auto Sales, a neighboring business. She and her husband, Antonio Gomez, rent space to Sepulveda for his auto shop. "At Christmas, they were so alone. They didn't do anything for the holidays. Everyone was so sad." Sonia Sepulveda finds comfort reading cards from Alberto's classmates at Prescott Senior Elementary and friends from Chrysler Elementary, describing how they knew and liked her son. Fourteen-year-old Moises Jr., a high school freshman, goes through the motions, rarely speaking publicly about what happened to his brother -- a sharp contrast to the teen-ager's outspoken criticism before the City Council and the media days after his brother's death. And every night, Alberto's sister, 8-year-old Xitlalic, peeks out her bedroom window at the slightest noise, making sure no one is out there. Similar Case The Sepulvedas' legal action so far consists of a wrongful death claim against the city. No one can sue a public agency without first filing a claim. The City Council has yet to act on the claim. Attorney Gonzalez handled a similar case out of Tulare County, where in 1997 Dinuba police -- while serving a search warrant for Visalia police -- shot and killed Ramon Gallardo during a raid at his home. Gonzalez represented the farm worker's family in a federal lawsuit against the city of Dinuba. In March 1999, after a three-week trial in U.S. District Court in Fresno, a jury awarded the family $12.5 million. The city of Dinuba appealed the verdict, and the family reached a $7 million settlement early last year. The Sepulveda family, Barajas said, hopes legal action will force police departments to change SWAT raid tactics, especially on homes where children live. But, beyond that, Alberto's parents do not want officials to give them lengthy explanations on what went wrong inside their home. "What's to understand?" Sonia and Moises Sepulveda Sr. asked Barajas in a recent interview. "Our son is dead." Candle Burns Continuously Hours after the shooting, Moises Jr. and his uncle tore out a patch of blood-stained carpet where Alberto died. Moises Jr., at the time, said he did not want his mother to see it. A piece of black carpet now covers the area. The bunk bed the brothers once shared has been moved to the other side of the room. Alberto's "Dragon Ball Z" blanket still drapes his bed. His brand-new school clothes hang, untouched, in the closet. His small collection of foreign coins and newly minted state quarters remains tucked in a bureau drawer. A short trail of black scorch marks from the SWAT team's flash-bomb grenade is still visible on the white tile living-room floor. Alberto's school picture, taken five days before his death, is just a few feet away. A white candle burns continuously in his memory. "They do not want us to forget that they were a family," Barajas said. "A family that was betrayed." - --- MAP posted-by: Josh Sutcliffe