Pubdate: Wed, 19 Sep 2001 Source: San Jose Mercury News (CA) Copyright: 2001 San Jose Mercury News Contact: http://www.sjmercury.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/390 Author: Ann Landers DINNERTIME REINFORCES KIDS' VALUES DEAR ANN: For several years, research and teen surveys have consistently revealed that the more often children eat dinner with their parents, the less likely they are to smoke, drink or use illegal drugs. To remind parents of the importance of family dinners, the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse is launching an annual event called "Family Day: A Day to Eat Dinner with Your Children." The event will take place on the fourth Monday in September. This year, the date is Sept. 24. Our goal is to create a symbolic day to highlight the importance of parental involvement and encourage Americans to make family dinners a regular feature of their lives. "Parent Power" is the most potent and underutilized tool to prevent teen substance abuse. Family dinners are a great way to put "Parent Power" to work to keep our children drug-free. Joseph A. Califano Jr., President, The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University, New York DEAR JOE CALIFANO: What a wonderful idea! The key to helping our children grow up drug-free is communication, and the kitchen table provides the ideal environment. I hope every family in America will be sure to schedule dinner together on Monday. It doesn't have to be a gourmet meal. Take-out pizza will do. The point is to spend time with your children, talking about their day and yours, finding ways to work through problems and letting your children know you are available. - --- MAP posted-by: Jackl