Pubdate: Thu, 03 May 2001 Source: Los Angeles Times (CA) Copyright: 2001 Los Angeles Times Contact: http://www.latimes.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/248 Author: Gene Maddaus Note: News from Rancho Cucamonga in the Times Community Newspapers LA Times URL: http://www.latimes.com/communities/news/pomona_valley/20010503/tiv0013767.html WITNESS PAINTS PICTURE OF NIGHT OF HEAVY DRUG USE Dell Bender Testifies That Sidney Polidori Gave Morphine To Israel Polidori The Night Before He Died. RANCHO CUCAMONGA -- A 49-year-old chiropractor gave his intoxicated stepson morphine and a muscle relaxant to intensify his buzz the night before the young man died, the stepson's best friend testified Wednesday. Dell Bender, 24, told the court that Sidney J. Polidori later told him to lie about the pills. Israel Polidori died May 6, 2000, two weeks shy of his 25th birthday. Prosecutors charged Sidney Polidori with second-degree murder and transporting or furnishing a controlled substance on March 22. He pleaded not guilty in April. He was in West Valley Superior Court on Wednesday for the first day of a preliminary hearing. Bender told the court that Israel Polidori called him the evening of May 5 and suggested that the pair drink some beers to celebrate Cinco de Mayo. Bender went to the Polidori home on Sleepy Oak Road in Chino Hills. He, Israel and Sidney Polidori drank liquor together, Bender said. At one point, he and Israel went out to a liquor store to buy three 32 oz. bottles of Miller High Life. Sidney Polidori gave each of the young men a dark blue, oval-shaped pill, told them it was morphine, and told them to swallow it "to increase our little buzz," Bender testified. He later gave each a white pill, which he did not identify, and a pill he said was a muscle relaxant, Bender said. He also broke two more morphine pills in half and gave the halves to his stepson and Bender, Bender said. Sidney Polidori never swallowed any of the pills, Bender said. At one point, Bender said, Sidney Polidori spread a white powdery substance on the backs of the young men's hands and told them to "slurp it up." The elder Polidori asked the young men how they were feeling at various points during the evening and told them that certain pills would counteract the buzz they were already feeling, Bender said. Israel drove Bender home at 2:30 a.m. Bender said he had never felt so intoxicated. "I thought I was gonna die," Bender said, adding that he immediately ate half a refrigerated pizza when he got home so he would have something to throw up. Sidney Polidori's wife, Debra, said her husband went in and out of Israel's room seven or eight times the next day but did not tell her anything was wrong. She asked him what he was hiding from her, and he said nothing. When she finally went into her son's bedroom, she said the young man was unconscious and making a gurgling sound. His mouth was silver. "I said, 'Look at the way he's holding his mouth,' " Debra Polidori said. "He said, 'I've been cleaning mucus out of it.' " Debra Polidori left the house after her husband assured her that her son would be OK. Paramedics came to the house about 6:30 p.m. in response to a 911 call and found Israel not breathing and without a pulse, San Bernardino County sheriff's deputies said. He died that night. When Debra Polidori got home that night, she found her husband cleaning out his dresser where he kept his pills, she said. "He told me Israel didn't make it," she said. Later, she said, she saw Sidney Polidori taking prescription pills down from a shelf in the garage. "I said, 'You stupid man.' He said, 'I know.' " Sidney Polidori told his wife that it "wouldn't go well" for her if she discussed Israel's death with police, she said. He also threatened to commit suicide, she said. Defense attorney Barry Bernstein suggested that the young men could have gotten to the pills on their own because they were left out and were accessible. The hearing will continue today. - --- MAP posted-by: Terry Liittschwager