Pubdate: Wed, 28 Aug 2002 Source: San Francisco Chronicle (CA) Copyright: 2002 Hearst Communications Inc. Contact: http://www.sfgate.com/chronicle/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/388 Author: Kelly St. John, Chronicle Staff Writer A SAD, SHORT LIFE Baby Who Died In Grandmother's Car Was Born Addicted To Heroin Oakland -- Little Marcello Kendall never knew a day without struggle. He was born with his mother's addiction to heroin and spent his first six weeks of life in an intensive care nursery at Oakland's Highland Hospital. There, he received morphine injections every four hours to soothe the unbearable pain of drug withdrawal. He was released from the hospital earlier this month with great hope. Instead, he died last week -- alone and forgotten -- left behind in the backseat of his grandmother's car while she worked an eight-hour shift at an Albertson's warehouse in San Leandro, police said. He was 8 weeks old. The nurses and volunteers who nurtured little Marcello through his drug addiction -- only to learn of his senseless death -- want everyone to know that he is not forgotten, that his short life did matter. They want everyone to know he was loved. "This was our baby," said one nurse on Tuesday. "His death just hit us in the gut." Volunteer In Mourning Christine Kay, 56, a volunteer in the Highland Hospital nursery, said she is in mourning for the wide-eyed baby with light skin and a shock of dark hair, who had a special place in her heart because he looked just like her son did when he was a baby. "It was a loss to all of us." The Alameda County district attorney's office is considering whether to charge Marcello's grandmother, Bretta Kendall, with child neglect or other crimes in connection with Marcello's death Thursday. Kendall, 48, who had legal custody of the child, left Marcello alone as she worked as a mail supervisor. Kendall, who has worked at the warehouse for 16 years, told police she thought she had dropped him off at his baby sitter's home. She has refused to speak with Chronicle reporters. A woman who answered the phone at her home Tuesday said, "We're not giving out any information." Marcello's aunt also could not be reached for comment. Tom Rogers, the assistant district attorney who is handling Marcello's case, would not say if or when charges will be filed. "I'd rather do a thorough review and make sure the charges we file are the correct ones," he said. Some of the nurses at Highland Hospital who coddled Marcello through his first weeks of life contacted Rogers this week on behalf of the baby they fear no one else stood up for. They spoke to The Chronicle on the condition that their names would not be used. Born A 'Drug Baby' Marcello, a fussy infant known to nurses and volunteers as "Baby boy Williams," lived in the intensive care nursery at Highland for six weeks after he was born on June 22. "He was a drug baby from the minute he was born," one nurse said. Marcello's 18-year-old mother, whose name has not been released by authorities, denied she had used drugs during her pregnancy, nurses said. Toxicology tests later showed that Marcello was born with an opiate in his system -- later confirmed by authorities as heroin. The baby's father -- 25-year-old Marcello Kendall -- was described as a "drug addict" by his mother, according to court documents filed in 2001. Hospital staff members contacted Alameda County child welfare officials after one of them looked closely at a photograph of the baby's parents that Marcello's mother had left in his crib. A pipe and other drug paraphernalia could be seen in the background of the picture, one nurse said. Like other babies born with drugs in their system, Marcello's tiny body was undernourished and ravaged by withdrawal. At first, he cried and hollered incessantly, unable to be soothed. "They are on cold turkey from the moment they are born, and that's pretty miserable," said Eliene Bundy, 80, another volunteer. "Some of them just need to be held, and he seemed to be having a hard time." Parental Visits Dry UP Nurses said Marcello's parents visited him often at first, but then the visits tailed off. An aunt came to see him faithfully every day, while Kendall visited him twice, nurses said. Gradually, under the 24-hour care of nurses, the frail baby began to improve. He responded to pain medication, gained weight and began to make eye contact with his caregivers. "He was becoming a real child," said Bundy, recalling how she watched a nurse talk to him as he sat in an automatic swing. "She knelt down and she was talking to him, and tweaking his chin. She got up and said, 'Well, he's really getting some stimulation here, after all.' " Lt. Steve Pricco of the San Leandro Police Department said Child Protective Services awarded Bretta Kendall legal custody of Marcello. Kendall, who also cares for an elderly father with Alzheimer's disease, has two teenage sons living at home, Pricco said. The nurses said they saw Marcello off from the hospital with hope for his future, especially when Kendall told them she was going to hire a nanny for the baby. Then they heard the news that Marcello -- neatly dressed in pants and a sweater, with a packed diaper bag sitting beside him -- had died in his car seat. The cause of his death has yet to be determined. Mixed Views On Punishment The caretakers who rocked and sang to Marcello during his first weeks disagree about what should happen to Kendall. Bundy feels sorry for Kendall and hopes she isn't charged. Others think she should be held criminally responsible. But they all mourn for the baby who lived a short life with a rough beginning and heartbreaking end. "For the time you hold them, and you look at them, and you feed them, you're giving them all the love that you've got," said Kay, breaking into tears. "And I truly think that stays with them all their lives, whether they die rapidly like this little boy or not. Every little bit of care and love settles in their soul, so they don't go into the world unloved."