Pubdate: Wed, 13 Nov 2002 Source: Globe and Mail (Canada) Copyright: 2002, The Globe and Mail Company Contact: http://www.globeandmail.ca/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/168 Author: Gloria Galloway FATHER'S POT USE IRKS OPP WHO COACHED SON Hockey Organizers Ask Dad to Move Boy to Another Team to Avoid Showdown A nine-year-old boy has switched hockey teams over fears of potential dressing-room hostilities involving his father, who uses marijuana for medical purposes, and his coaches, who are members of the Ontario Provincial Police. Nicolas Neron of Hearst, a town of 1,000 in Northern Ontario, had been selected in a blind draft to play for a team sponsored by a committee that runs the local Drug Abuse Resistance Education (D.A.R.E.) program. D.A.R.E. is an Ontario-wide initiative used by police to alert children to the dangers of illegal drugs. Noel Cantin, the head of the Hearst Minor Hockey Association, said yesterday that he and other association board members persuaded Nicolas's dad, Robert Neron, that a change of teams was the only reasonable course of action. The board "asked Mr. Neron to make the right decision for his son. And that's when he came back and said 'OK, I'll move,' " said Mr. Cantin. "That's what we emphasized during the meeting -- 'You're not going to only punish your kid but 15 other kids on that team.' " Mr. Neron could not be reached for comment. The D.A.R.E. team is coached by OPP officers whose sons are also players. The head coach, Constable Mario Hautcoeur, thought he spotted trouble when Mr. Neron arrived in the dressing room to lace up his son's skates. Mr. Neron was granted an exemption in July, 2001, to federal laws prohibiting marijuana use after arguing that it relieves the chronic pain and other symptoms caused by an industrial accident five years ago. He has been a vocal advocate for the legalization of the drug and protested outside city hall when the Hearst council refused his request to hold a Cannabis Day. Mr. Neron was charged with possession of marijuana two years ago but the charges were withdrawn when the exemption was granted. Even so, his relationship with the police has remained rocky. He was recently arrested for a seat-belt violation and, when he complained to the police, he was charged with disturbing the peace and a weapons infraction. When Constable Hautcoeur warned the local hockey association that the animosity that existed among police officers and Mr. Neron could erupt in the dressing room, he was told to suggest to Mr. Neron that he remain in the stands while his son was getting changed. Far from acquiescing, Mr. Neron was incensed. He rejected Constable Hautcoeur's suggestion, saying he is not the type of father who leaves his son at the dressing-room door. But, after meeting with the hockey association, he agreed to switch his son to the other team in the same division. Acting Staff Sergeant Grant Ayres, the commander of the Hearst detachment, stressed yesterday that the decision to keep Mr. Neron out of the dressing room was not made by the police. "This is a decision made by minor hockey that [Constable Hautcoeur] was asked to discuss with the parent. When he did that -- discussing minor hockey's request -- Mr. Neron took it to be the officer's request," said Sgt. Ayres. In hindsight, he said, it would have been better for the request to have come directly from the association. But, said Sgt. Ayres, "there is definitely animosity" between the police and Mr. Neron over his marijuana advocacy. "Now it's much more appealing for him to say it's police against his son. The officer in question had no problem with coaching his son," said Sgt. Ayres. "In Hearst it's very difficult to get publicity for your purposes. We're not the centre of the world. This suits his needs quite well." Mr. Cantin agreed that Mr. Neron is well known in Hearst as a marijuana advocate. "Loud would be a proper way of describing it," he said. But the conflict, he said, has been resolved. "It had nothing to do with the kid but unfortunately the kid was stuck in there, as usual," said Mr. Cantin. "It's the way with minor hockey, it's never the kids that are giving you a hard time, it's always the parents." - --- MAP posted-by: Alex