Pubdate: Sun, 10 Nov 2002
Source: Monroe News-Star (LA)
Copyright: 2002 The News-Star, Gannett
Contact:   http://www.thenewsstar.com/
Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1644
Author: Kaki Neck

LIKE PARENTS, STUDENTS WATCHED AS EXAMPLES

"Just Say No" is a phrase used to discourage kids from taking drugs. 
However, the widespread use of drugs, not only by the general population 
but kids in their preteens, suggest we, as a society, need a more 
determined approach to our society's drug abuse.

As an athlete, I feel all athletes should be subject to random drug 
testing, not only during the school year but also in the off-season. In 
order to play sports, an athlete should maintain a clean lifestyle in the 
off-season as well as during the season.

Because I play a team sport, I depend on my teammates. I have a 
responsibility to them and they have a responsibility to me to remain drug 
free for the success of our team.

During the school year, the administration requires athletes to take random 
drug tests. However, when the last bell of the school year rings, we are 
through with our drug testing until the beginning of the next school year.

Being an athlete takes dedication on and off the field. As athletes, we 
should be setting a good example for younger kids. My mom always tells me 
"you never know who's watching you. Little kids learn from example, and the 
example you set may be the one they decide to follow. Be sure that you are 
always a positive example."

Also, parents play a big part in their child's view of drugs. I believe if 
parents talk openly with their children, and not only talk but listen to 
what their kids have to say, a big difference can be made in whether their 
children will bend to peer pressure and take drugs. My parents have always 
made me feel what I say and how I'm feeling is important. I feel a person's 
self esteem has a lot to do with how they handle the problems in their life 
and whether or not they will take drugs.

I also feel that a strong Christian faith also keeps me free from drugs. I 
have no need to "drown myself" as long as I put Christ first in my life. 
That doesn't mean that I don't have problems like any other kid, but rather 
that I put my problems in perspective.

I would like to say that as a student-athlete I am very much for random 
drug testing year-round.

The following poem has touched me in many ways and provides some perspective:

Little Eyes Upon You

There are little eyes upon you

and they're watching night

and day.

There are little ears that quickly

take in every word you say.

There are little hands all eager

To do anything you do;

And a little boy who's

dreaming

of the day he'll be like you.

You're the little fellow's idol,

You're the wisest of the wise.

In his little mind about you

No suspicions ever rise.

He believes in you devoutly,

Holds all you say and do;

He will say and do,

in your way

when he's grown up

just like you.

There's a wide-eyed

little fellow

Who believes

you're always right;

And his eyes are always opened,

And he watches day and night.

You are setting an example

Every day in all you do;

For the little boy who's waiting

To grow up to be like you.

- - Unknown

Kaki Neck is a senior at Ouachita Parish High School and a member of the 
girl's basketball team.
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