Pubdate: Sat, 07 Dec 2002 Source: Christian Science Monitor (US) Copyright: 2002 The Christian Science Publishing Society Contact: http://www.csmonitor.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/83 Author: Tom Jablonski Referenced: http://www.mapinc.org/drugnews/v02/n2198/a12.html TODAY'S YOUTH NEED BETTER ROLE MODELS In response to your Dec. 4 article "Keeping kids clean": You fail to touch on the real reasons kids use drugs and alcohol: namely, to avoid life and the stresses associated with it - the same reasons used by their parents. Our society strives to avoid pain and suffering, looking for meaning in a high-paying job, a big house, and lots of stuff. We are bombarded with advertisements showing that drinking makes one popular or makes life meaningful. We spend our weekends socializing with alcohol, watching football games sponsored by beer companies, and avoiding spending quality time with our children. We fail to pass any kind of meaningful spiritual life to our kids. Until we as a society decide that it is time to change our priorities, our children will continue to use drug and alcohol. Instead of focusing on them, we must first focus on the adults; they are the ones we can change. Tom Jablonski La Crosse, Wis. - --- MAP posted-by: Alex