Pubdate: Fri, 20 Dec 2002 Source: Wilmington Morning Star (NC) Copyright: 2002 Wilmington Morning Star Contact: http://www.wilmingtonstar.com Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/500 ANTI-DRUG AGENTS: GOOD PARENTS The discovery of a little marijuana at Alderman Elementary School is distressing, but it's not that surprising. Kids bring to school what they find elsewhere. That doesn't necessarily mean they're going to use it. But they, or maybe their friends, will be tempted to. The episode will be useful if it reminds all parents that such dangers abound, even for children of elementary school age. It is parents, of course, who bear most of the responsibility for lessening those dangers. It is they who can provide safe and healthful homes and set good examples for their children. It is they who can give their children the love and support that can make them strong enough to resist the peer pressures that are sure to come. It is they who can stay close enough to their children to notice when something might be going awry. Teachers and principals play important roles, of course. But they can do only so much. In this case, school officials have suspended three children for 10 days and have talked with their parents. Certainly parents should be concerned about marijuana. But they should be equally alert to cigarettes and alcohol, which are more commonly used by younger children. Being legal hardly makes them safer than pot. - --- MAP posted-by: Richard Lake