Pubdate: Wed, 17 Dec 2003 Source: Palm Beach Post, The (FL) Copyright: 2003 The Palm Beach Post Contact: http://www.gopbi.com/partners/pbpost/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/333 Author: Mark Golden STORE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR WOMAN'S CHOICE TO GET HIGH Personal responsibility has again lost out to greed ("Injured woman's parents sue store over 'whippets'," Dec. 11). While my heart goes out to the parents of 18-year-old Jamie Cook, she is 18. An adult. A person of voting age. It was Jamie who chose to get into a moving vehicle and do the drugs. No one held a gun to her head. (Ms. Cook and a friend got high last summer on nitrous oxide gas from 'whippet' cartridges sold at a Boca Raton video store. The friend's car was involved in a head-on collision minutes later, leaving Ms. Cook with serious injuries and permanent brain damage. Her parents are suing the video store.) Yes, the store management is stupid if it thinks people are buying the canisters to make whipped cream, but it is Jamie who chose, and her parents who failed to teach her of the dangers of all drugs. As for the video store manager's claim that the store was selling the gas to make whipped cream for adults' sexual pleasure, I moved here from the Boston area where I ran kitchen stores. We were selling the canisters for whipped-cream purposes (sexual or plain consumption). In the mid-90s, we discovered that kids were using these canisters to get high. We stopped selling them. Yes, some of our legitimate customers were upset, but when we told them why, they understood. Did we have to? No, the canister sales were legal. It is up to the buyer how it is used. But we figured, why put a dangerous weapon, and it is indeed a weapon if used wrong, in the hands of those too stupid to know right from wrong? Unfortunately, Ms. Cook chose to make the wrong decision. That aside, I do hope her recovery is swift and complete. Mark Golden West Palm Beach - --- MAP posted-by: Larry Seguin