Pubdate: Sat, 06 Mar 2004
Source: Northern Daily News (CN ON)
Copyright: 2004, Osprey Media Group Inc.
Contact:  http://www.northernnews.ca/
Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/2315
Author: Kirkland Lake

DRUG USE AND TEENS, APPROACH IT CALMLY

Often, parents have good clues about an adolescent's drug use. Some 
indications may include finding paraphernalia (rolling papers, pipes, 
clips, red eye reduction remedies). Noticing differences in a teen's 
behaviour, such as dropping grades, stealing, selling belongings, 
moodiness, sleeping often and lack of motivation could also mean possible use.

If you find yourself in this situation what can you do?

* Don't panic or react out of anger or fear. Be calm.

* Don't try to talk with them when they are stoned. Wait.

* Come to an agreement about how to handle the problem of drug use (should 
it occur).

* Explain you views about drug use to your children. Discuss your feelings 
about this issue with them.

* Reinforce the fact that you love them and that you do not want them to 
change themselves. It is their behaviour and drug use that is unacceptable 
and must change.

* Drug use may be symptomatic of other problems - don't ignore them or 
think they are irrelevant.

* If your child is using drugs some of his/her friends may be using as 
well. It may be time for you and other parents to offer the whole group an 
alternative way in which to spend their leisure time.

* Don't wait until the situation is out of control, early intervention is 
the best cure.

* Remain current with illicit drug use and its culture.

* Seek professional help from the myriad local agencies equipped to help 
deal with this issue.

For more information to help parents deal with and discuss drug use, please 
contact the Timiskaming Substance Abuse Service.
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MAP posted-by: Jay Bergstrom