Pubdate: Wed, 26 Jan 2005 Source: Star-Ledger (NJ) Copyright: 2005 Newark Morning Ledger Co Contact: http://www.nj.com/starledger/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/424 Author: Josh Margolin And Deborah Howlett Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/pot.htm (Cannabis) IRATE CODEY BLASTS RADIO SHOCK JOCK Post-Partum Remarks Spur Clash In a heated, face-to-face confrontation, acting Gov. Richard Codey and a radio personality clashed last night over comments the shock jock made about first lady Mary Jo Codey's well-publicized battle with postpartum depression. "I wish I weren't governor, I'd take you out," Codey said to NJ 101.5 radio host Craig Carton in a hallway at the station's studios. Coming nearly nose to nose with Codey, Carton responded: "That's real professional. You want to fight?" With the pair shouting at each other, members of Codey's security detail began moving in, though they did not step between the two. Carton then left the station, saying he had an appointment to keep. Codey said he was upset by comments Carton made during his Monday afternoon "Jersey Guys" show, which he co-hosts. According to a partial transcript the governor's office said was provided by a "trusted source," Carton said: "What Governor Codey ought to do is approve the use of medical marijuana so women can have a joint and relax instead of putting their babies in a microwave. Then all they want to do is cook Doritos. Women who claim they suffer from this postpartum depression .. they must be crazy in the first place." The acting governor's wife has publicly described her battle with depression and talked openly about her post-birth emotional state -- times when she thought both of drowning her child or placing the baby in a microwave oven. Since Codey assumed the governorship in November, care for the mentally ill has become a key issue for his administration and the first lady has become a leading spokeswoman for the cause. At the station's Ewing Township studio for the monthly "Ask the Governor" call-in show, Codey delivered a prepared on-the-air rebuttal. "Let me make myself very clear: I am proud of my wife and of her work to help people with mental illness throughout the state of New Jersey. These remarks were personally offensive to me, my wife and our sons. But I am even more disturbed that they reinforced a negative stigma and hurt hundreds of thousands of other New Jerseyans who deal with this disease every day," Codey said. "One in five New Jersey residents will suffer from mental illness in their lifetime. This disease affects almost every family in New Jersey. The comments were based on pure ignorance and a general lack of understanding surrounding postpartum depression and other mental illnesses," Codey continued. "If anything, the remarks underscored the pressing need for programs that help people better understand mental illness and its impact on our friends, our co-workers, our neighbors and our loved ones." Confronted by Codey minutes before the acting governor's call-in show, Carton defended his remarks. "As the father of three, I'm offended any woman would think about putting a baby in a microwave or drowning him. ... She has to be crazy to start with. That's my opinion," Carton said to Codey. "That's just ignorance," Codey responded, adding Carton's comments were "more than low." Citing company policy, station program director Eric Johnson declined to release a copy of a tape of the show. He said he saw nothing wrong with Carton's Monday show. "Talk show hosts are free to comment on the news," Johnson said. "We have talk show hosts with strong opinions. ... What I heard did not cross the line. One of the things that makes the station successful is talk show hosts aren't looking over their shoulders. They're honest." Carton and his often strong views have made news before. In 2003, Carton was criticized for comments he made regarding Hispanic day laborers who were being picked up at a central point in Freehold. A year earlier, on-air banter between Carton and his co-host, Ray Rossi, regarding the sexual orientation of then-Gov. James E. McGreevey launched McGreevey and his staff into a rage. At the time, McGreevey was fending off hushed rumors he was gay as Carton and Rossi compared the activities of the governor and former aide Golan Cipel to Liberace, the flamboyant gay pianist who died of AIDS in 1987. Last year, McGreevey announced he is, in fact, gay and would resign because of an extramarital affair with a man later identified as Cipel. After making his prepared statement, Codey took on-air questions for an hour, talking with the show's host, Eric Scott, and callers on topics ranging from his political future to the looming $4 billion budget deficit to political corruption. Several callers praised his mental health initiatives and his defense of his wife. As he left the radio station, Codey said he was glad he confronted Carton: "I'm proud of what I said in there." - --- MAP posted-by: Beth