Pubdate: Sun, 03 Sep 2006
Source: Times-Reporter (New Philadelphia, OH)
Copyright: 2006 The Times-Reporter
Contact:  http://www.timesreporter.com
Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1188
Author: Dick Farrell, T-R editor
Cited: National Center of Addiction and Substance Abuse 
http://www.casacolumbia.org
Referenced: http://www.mapinc.org/drugnews/v06.n1145.a01.html
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PARENTS NEED TO WAKE UP AND SMELL THE MARIJUANA

Over the last few months, The Times-Reporter has attempted to shine a 
spotlight on the growing problem of heroin abuse in Tuscarawas 
County. Though in actuality the number of young adults and teenagers 
addicted to heroin is relatively small, the problem is magnified not 
only by the addicts' ancillary criminal activities but also because 
of the negative overall impact those crimes have on family and 
friends, the justice system and social services.

As we start another school year and at the risk of sounding like an 
old tired preacher, we have a bit of advice for parents.

Wake up and smell the marijuana.

Actually, that advice comes from the National Center of Addiction and 
Substance Abuse at Columbia University, which recently released its 
annual survey of teens and parents on such issues as the teen party 
scene, which as we all know from reading the newspaper is flourishing 
in our own communities.

The center surveyed 1,297 teens, age 12 to 17 (591 boys, 706 girls) 
and 562 parents of teens, 84 percent of whom (470) were parents of 
teens who completed the survey.

Last week, the Chicago Tribune, citing the survey, editorialized that 
parents are, in a nutshell, clueless.

"Twelve percent of parents see illegal substances as their teenagers' 
greatest concern," said the editorial.  "Yet 27 percent of teens say 
drugs are a major worry.  How is it that teenagers are more concerned 
about drug use than their parents?

"Maybe because parents are choosing the bliss of ignorance."

So, how about those teen parties -- you know, the rite-of-passage 
parties that are held at the home of a student while the parents are 
away on vacation, or maybe at the movies. Those are the kind of 
parties where bad things happen. Some of those parties and the teens 
who attend them make the front page.

Here's what the center concluded:

. When parents are not present, alcohol and drugs are more likely to 
be available.

. Virtually all parents say they normally are present at their teens' 
parties; one-third of teens say they're not.

. Virtually all parents say they would not serve alcohol at parties; 
nearly one-third of teens say they have been to parties with teen 
drinking and parents present.

Joseph A. Califano Jr., chairman and president of the center, said 
the message this year is "laser sharp."

"Teen drug and alcohol use is a parent problem, not just a teen 
problem," he wrote. "Too many parents fail to fulfill their 
responsibility to chaperone their teens' parties, have no idea how 
drug and alcohol infested their teens' world is and are utterly 
unrealistic about their own conduct with respect to their children.

"The lack of involvement, denial and self-delusion of these parental 
palookas put their teens at enormous risk of drinking and using 
illegal and prescription drugs.

"Teen parties are a common part of teen life, and these parties are 
awash with alcohol and drugs."

Califano also sounds a special warning for parents of young teens.

"The transition from age 13 to age 14, often when a shift from middle 
to high school occurs, is a time of dramatically escalating substance 
abuse risk," he wrote.

High school freshmen are much likelier to be offered prescription 
drugs, Ecstasy, marijuana and cocaine.  They are also likelier to 
attend parties with teens drinking with parents present; likelier to 
attend parties where teens are smoking pot with parents present; and 
likelier to attend parties where teens are using other drugs with 
parents present.

"The message is loud and clear, parents," adds Califano. "Wake up and 
smell the beer and pot! If your teen is having a party at your home, 
you should not only be there, but also be aware of what is going on.

"And if your teen attends a party at someone else's home, you should 
confirm that the parents will be present and that alcohol and drugs 
will not. The reality is that even when parents are present at a 
party, some kids will try to sneak in substances."

It seemed to me when my children were teenagers that some parents 
wanted to be their kids' friends. I generally concluded after 
watching that dynamic that it doesn't work. 
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MAP posted-by: Richard Lake