Pubdate: Wed, 15 Nov 2006 Source: Tri-City News (Port Coquitlam, CN BC) Copyright: 2006 Tri-City News Contact: http://www.tricitynews.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1239 Author: Diane Strandberg SAY 'KNOW' -- AND 'NO' -- TO DRUGS Today's teens are bombarded with so many messages -- from the media, from their peers, from their parents -- someone wanting to communicate with them practically has to shout to be heard over the din. But two drug prevention counsellors are hoping that by soft-selling their anti-drug message -- and couching it in terms of "know," not simply "no" -- they'll get the kids' attention. "Yes, abstinence from drugs, that is the best," said Lisa Ackerman, who works for Share Family and Community Services out of a broom-closet office at Centennial secondary. "But with kids who are using, how can we help them make informed choices for themselves?" The statistics show kids are experimenting, so lecturing kids about the evils of drugs isn't enough, agrees Karen O'Brien, who works out of Port Coquitlam's Riverside secondary school. The latest McCreary adolescent health survey, a detailed questionnaire on drug and alcohol use given to students beginning in Grade 7, showed some 57% had tried alcohol (for 17-year-olds, it's 78%) and one in five had used marijuana in the past month. Ackerman said young people need support in making good choices and, to that end, she's organizing a special event called "I say no to drugs but they just don't listen" for next Tuesday, Nov. 21. But the event, held in conjunction with Drug Awareness Week, won't be some dry panel discussion with a bunch of adult "experts" to give teens the dope on drugs and booze. Instead, she has organized a social gathering with three live local bands, snacks and non-alcoholic drinks. There will also be door prizes -- the "sugar" to make the medicine go down easily. "For any education event, there has to be something that's enticing to youth," said Ackerman, who was a youth recreation worker before taking on the counselling role a month ago. Parents are also invited to attend the event. It's a no-brainer parents are key to prevention, said O'Brien, but they may need a little helping in talking to their kids. There will be booths from various social service agencies and prevention organizations where parents and their kids can pick up fact sheets, get referrals and generally learn more about drug and alcohol use among teenagers. Ackerman has also invited some inspirational speakers and teens involved with Share who will tell the story of their own recovery journeys. The good news for parents and teenagers interested in learning more about the issue is that people are much more willing to talk about what was once taboo and more is known about the effects of drugs and alcohol on young, growing brains. But parents worried about drug and alcohol facts being presented in a party-like atmosphere can relax. "Obviously, everybody has to come sober," said Ackerman, who said youth helping organize the event, including band members, are getting the word out and making sure their peers respect the rules. "There very aware of that and happy to promote that to their friends." * "I say no to drugs but they just don't listen" is scheduled for Tuesday, Nov. 21 at Centennial secondary school, 7 to 9:30 p.m. Youth and their parents are invited. - --- MAP posted-by: Elaine