Pubdate: Wed, 22 Nov 2006 Source: Marshfield Mariner (MA) Copyright: 2006 Marshfield Mariner Contact: http://www2.townonline.com/marshfield/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/3710 Author: Kathryn Koch Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/find?225 (Students - United States) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/pot.htm (Marijuana) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/coke.htm (Cocaine) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/decrim.htm (Decrim/Legalization) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/testing.htm (Drug Testing) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/mdma.htm (Ecstasy) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/heroin.htm (Heroin) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/find?136 (Methadone) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/meth.htm (Methamphetamine) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/oxycontin.htm (Oxycontin/Oxycodone) TOUGH PILL If children are under the influence of heroin and Oxycontin and parents ignore the possibility, does a drug problem really exist in Marshfield? Police, parents and community members upset about the lack of attendance by parents at a drug awareness parent night at Furnace Brook Middle School Thursday night say the answer is yes. Lt. Phil Tavares summed up the sentiment expressed by many at the forum about the lack of attendance - about two dozen people. For every middle school or high school student, there are usually two parents, he said, so where were the 5,000 parents who did not attend to learn about the "it" drugs - heroin and Oxycontin - in the Marshfield schools? "Where are they?" he asked. "That's the biggest problem. You have to know what's going on with your kids. You have to be nosy." Tavares said once an addiction takes over a child's life, it's awfully hard to get the child back, so prevention in the classroom and at home is key. "We have a serious, serious drug problem in our community, and you can't hide from it," he said. The people who did not attend missed the story of Jim Kent, a friend of Tavares' for 16 years, who talked about his drug addiction in high school to show that it can happen to anyone. Kent said he grew up in a good family, but he started smoking marijuana at 12 and was into cocaine and hallucinogens by age 15. All his high school friends were taking drugs, too, looking for that high. All he wanted to do was get high. "I didn't know if I was coming or going," he said. Kent wasn't driving when he lost his eyesight in a motor vehicle accident, but he was high. His life on drugs was not what his parents had wanted for him, and he felt like he had screwed them over. He worries about the youths today. "There's a lot of bad stuff in Marshfield now," he said. Jenine, who asked that her last name not be used, knows how hard it is as the mother of a recovering addict. Her 26-year-old daughter has been clean and sober for 2 1/2 years, but not after a long struggle. "I lived a TV movie for six years," she said. According to Jenine, she knows from personal experience that seven of the people in the audience were the parents of children who are addicted to drugs, which made her feel even more shame at the turnout. "Where are people's priorities?" she asked. "Drug use is huge right now, and it's scary. No one wants to face it, but it's a big problem, and it's not going away." Jenine said she thinks the police had a great message to send to parents, but that even the police don't have a full grasp on how much drug use goes on in the high school. Besides heroin and Oxycontin, she said Ecstasy pills are in demand. "It is out of control," she said. Jenine said she was home when her daughter got on the school bus and when she got off, since she was a stay-at-home mother. If it can happen to her, it can happen to anyone, she said. "I've said to my friends, if you aren't scared, be scared," she said. "Don't say, 'My kids won't do that. My kids are good kids.'" Jenine said Marshfield really needs a parent support group because it's a parent's job, not the job of the police, to watch out for teens. She said parents should be aware of how to recognize the first signs of a drug addiction because it really should start with prevention. She believes in drug testing as a form of prevention, and said students should get tested when they get their physicals for sports or other purposes. Jenine said it's not about kicking students off sports teams, but about getting them drug counseling. School resource officer Helen Gray said she sees the need for a Narcotics Anonymous group for teens. They may not listen to adults, but they may listen to other teens. School resource officer Robert Quigley kicked off the forum by explaining how regular use of gateway drugs -tobacco, alcohol and marijuana - often leads to the use of other drugs. He said important steps parents can take are to talk to their children and listen to what they have to say about why they might be drinking or smoking, and to talk to them about the dangers, which can range from memory loss to brain damage. "There's always some kind of new high they're going to try," he said. One of the goals of the parent night was to educate parents about the different types of drugs, starting with inhalants and moving on to DXM (dextromethorpan), commonly found in cough suppressants; prescription pills including Oxycontin, Xanax, Ritalin, and Atterol, and concluding with methadone and then cocaine. Det. Jeff Brennan, who explained the effects of each of the drugs he covered and also presented the differences in price, said methadone (in the form of crystal methadone) is a growing concern because of the chemicals used in the drug. He said a serious addict has a life expectancy of five to seven years. "It robs the body from the inside out," he said. Tavares said a new development that worries police is a new law legalizing the sale of hypodermic needles to anyone 18 or older without a prescription. He said the police are working with the high school on a video instructing people to call police and not touch it if someone finds a needle. Tavares said community support is needed to identify where young people buy the drugs to feed their addiction. He said told the story of a neighborhood with a known drug house, only the neighbors never called police to report unusual numbers of people entering the home. Tavares said people can anonymously report suspicious activity that may be drug-related by logging on to the police department's website and accessing the Drop-A-Dime program link, by calling the regular police business line or even by writing a letter. Furnace Brook Principal Al Makein said young people don't necessary need a dealer to get prescription pills. They may take them from the medicine cabinet at home. It was also mentioned that kids might sneak pills from their grandparents. He added that his difficulty is sharing real estate with the high school right next door. Makein said communication starts at home, but also takes place at the middle school. He said students have been the sources of information in the past involving incidents at the middle school, even though speaking up could cause them problems. "Imagine the risk an 11- or 12-year-old is taking," he said. - --- MAP posted-by: Richard Lake