Pubdate: Wed, 29 Nov 2006 Source: Register Herald, The (NY) Contact: http://www.zwire.com/site/news.cfm?newsid=50444&BRD=1706&PAG=461&dept_id=71998&rfi=6 Website: http://www.TheRegisterHerald.com Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/4364 Author: Sarah Palermo Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/youth.htm (Youth) PEER TEACHERS - DAYTOP RESIDENTS SPEAK TO STISSING MOUNTAIN STUDENTS ABOUT THE DANGERS OF DRUG ABUSE Teens often believe that adults are boring and preachy, especially when addressing how drug use can quickly turn into the bigger problem of drug or alcohol abuse. When Steven DeLuca first started teaching the health classes at Stissing Mountain High School 17 years ago, he understood the difficulties an adult would face when trying to address a class full of teenagers on the dangers of drug use. He also understood, however, the importance that teens place on what their peers say. Using that knowledge, he began to look around Dutchess County for a program that would offer a unique teaching opportunity. Every year, a counselor from Daytop, a residential drug-treatment facility for teens with homes in Millbrook and Rhinebeck, brings some of the teens and young adults from the program to DeLuca's eighth and 11th grade health classes to give their first-hand accounts of how drug abuse affected their lives. "It's fine for me to provide information on decisions, but I believe there can be additional benefits from their peers, who have experienced some of the same situations that the students here have," DeLuca said, noting, "They may relate better to someone who's their own age." While Daytop provides services for people between the ages of 13 and 20, the speakers for this year ranged from 15 to 20. They discussed their experiences with abusive relationships, being banned from prom, or running away from home. "I'm always really eager to come here," said Roland Miley, the counselor from Daytop who has been accompanying the residents to Stissing Mountain High School for the past four years. The speakers addressed how even casual drug use can easily turn into abuse, which takes a complete hold over the abuser's life. Every action is about getting their chosen substance, and in doing so, an addict becomes a keeper of secrets. Trust between parents and their child, and even between friends, is often destroyed, Stissing students were told. "They spend a lot of time keeping secrets before they come to the program," he said, "but they got comfortable sharing, so a lot of what you'll hear today are stories that they've told at Daytop after they worked very hard." According to DeLuca and Miley, as well as the Daytop residents themselves, they look forward to the trip as much, if not more, than the Stissing Mountain students. After each Daytop participant told his or her personal story to the class, they informally talked about the freedoms that normal high school students may take for granted each day. They discussed what they saw on a tour of the high school, and marveled at the amenities and freedoms that the students have, such as the climbing wall in the gym, "We know what it's like to have it, take it for granted, and then it's gone," said Brian, a 20-year-old student at Daytop. "It actually helps the residents, because, in the program, we teach them 'You can't keep what you've learned unless you give it away,'" Miley said. Aside from the benefits that his own students reap from hearing first-hand accounts of what drug abuse can do to lives as young and full of potential as their own, DeLuca said he understands the benefits for the Daytop residents. "For them, it can feel really good when you feel like you're helping someone, even in the smallest way," he said. - --- MAP posted-by: Derek