Pubdate: Fri, 17 Mar 2006 Source: North Lake Tahoe Bonanza (NV) Copyright: 2006, North Lake Tahoe Bonanza Contact: http://www.tahoebonanza.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1425 Author: Patricia Hickson, Bonanza Staff Writer Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/pot.htm (Cannabis) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/find?225 (Students - United States) PARENTS LEARN HOW TO KEEP KIDS SAFE In 2005, more than 11 percent of Washoe County high school students said they experimented with marijuana by the time they were 13, according to a recent Youth Risk Behavior Survey published by the county. This statistic was up 3 percent from 2003 when only 9 percent of 13-year-olds said that had tried marijuana. "This is a reason for concern, if not alarm - which is why we are here tonight," said Steven Boyd, a drug and alcohol counselor with Bristlecone Family Resources to parents who had gathered at the IHS theater Wednesday night for a drug awareness presentation. The presentation, organized by Incline public school counselors, was designed to inform parents about the signs and symptoms of drug use, drug trends, prevention strategies and intervention and treatment options. "I, along with the other counselors, decided it was good class to offer because drug and alcohol use are a problem for adolescents and teenagers in all communities," said elementary school counselor Stephanie Kane. Alanna Brown, Incline High School counselor, said she knows there are drug and alcohol problems at IHS because students have come into her office to discuss abuse issues. "Students from the leadership class approached me and asked me to speak with them about drugs and alcohol and I went and it was hard to make eye contact with anyone in that room," Brown said. "I felt like kids were looking at me like "please help - we're scared." During his presentation Boyd gave an overview of what drugs are popular today, what drug paraphernalia looks like, what kinds of behavior may indicate drug abuse and what parents can do to encourage kids to stay off drugs. In preventing drug abuse behavior Boyd focuses on three helpful policies: Limiting gateway substances (such as sugar and caffeine) when kids are young, teaching children to delay gratification from an early age (i.e.. not giving into tantrums), and knowing your kids behavior and friends when they are older. "Know about your kids, know their friends, hug them when they walk in the door, smell them and look in their eyes," Boyd said. Boyd's message was emphasize by Washoe County Sheriff sergeant, Bill Devine. "If you know who your kids are and what they are doing - you are going to be better prepared to keep your kids away from drugs and alcohol," Devine said. Devine said he has broken up several parties in Incline involving high school students where he knew alcohol and marijuana were involved. "Don't ever give up on your kids," Devine said. "And do not be afraid to confront them - I can't tell you how many times we get calls by parents who want us to do something about their kids, but don't want their kids to know they called (the sheriffs)," Devine said. "With my kid - I want to do whatever it takes... can you say that as a parent?" Boyd asked the crowd before closing. Signs and symptoms of drug use: Poor physical appearance Changes in Friends Changes in sleep patterns (excessive or very little) Change in eating habits Differences in moods Finding strange things in their room/ backpacks/ cars Difficulty focusing Decreased performance at school Evidence of drug paraphernalia (such as pipes or rolling papers) Increased secrecy about possessions or activities Missing prescription drugs (especially narcotics and mood stabilizers) *source: Steven Boyd - --- MAP posted-by: Richard Lake