Pubdate: Sat, 27 May 2006 Source: Toronto Star (CN ON) Copyright: 2006 The Toronto Star Contact: http://www.thestar.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/456 Author: Damien Cox DON'T HATE HIM 'CAUSE HE'S WEIRD Ricky Williams Deserves A Chance ... Would-Be Argonaut Is Here And Waiting We're all just going to have to be a little open-minded here. Errick Lynne (Ricky) Williams, it's certain, would be one of the most idiosyncratic sports personalities to come through this town since the thoroughly unusual Carl Brewer. Brewer was himself a brilliant and brooding young athlete -- some just dismissed him as a nut -- who stunned one and all when he bolted from the Maple Leafs on the eve of the NHL season more than 40 years ago, and later emerged to resume his career in Finland, of all places. Now it's Williams' turn to play Napoleon on Elba, reconstructing his career far from the glorious stage most believe he was born to occupy. The Argonauts have a contractual deal in principle with Williams. Now it's up to the Miami Dolphins to give their blessing to this startling marriage. But other than the fact Williams is a terrific running back and 29 years old, there is little that can be said with certitude about him. He is a little bit of everything; an intellectual, a mystic, an apprentice holistic healer, a father, a twin, a hippie, a lost soul searching for answers and a person simply seeking to experience every possible stimulus life offers, from addiction to pain to religion to freedom. You can either embrace that complexity, or reject it. Or, you can simply give the man an opportunity to prove himself. If he messes up from there, well, he can be judged on that. And he won't have a great deal of wiggle room. It is, after all, important not to be naive while trying to be open-minded, and equally important not to reward those who repeatedly choose to break the rules ahead of others who abide by those same rules. Williams has erred sensationally before, and more than once. Moreover, when pressed on issues such as walking out on the Dolphins two years ago and his past penchant for smoking marijuana, he has given evasive, often contradictory answers. Here's an example. When Mike Wallace of 60 Minutes fame interviewed Williams while he was studying the ancient Indian science of Ayurveda in the fall of 2004 after quitting the NFL at the age of 27, Williams told Wallace that he left the NFL because the "money is what made me miserable." "It's blood money as far as I'm concerned," he said. But when Wallace challenged him on the statement, Williams acknowledged it wasn't true at all. "Here's what happened, okay?" he said. "The thing that I had the most trouble with was that after ... after you fail, your, your third (drug) test then it becomes public knowledge that, that you failed the test. And that's the one thing that I couldn't deal with at the time, people knowing that I smoke marijuana." On four occasions, he has broken NFL substance abuse rules, and if he becomes an Argo, he will still be subject to 10 tests per month. So is he Craig MacTavish, the much-admired head coach of the Edmonton Oilers who rebounded from committing a serious crime early in his hockey career to become a role model in the hockey world? Or is he just a football version of the late Steve Howe, a career screw-up? From all accounts, Williams sounds like an intelligent, intriguing person, one willing to look at life a little differently, even if it means living in a tent in an Australian camp for $7 a day, posing in a wedding dress as the bride to Mike Ditka's groom on the cover of Sports Illustrated or naming his daughter Marley after Jamaican reggae star Bob Marley, his personal hero. Wait until he finds out Marley's son Rohan once played in the CFL with the Ottawa Rough Riders. Being different, we can all agree, is no crime. And yes, Williams is different. He's already been in the city a week along with his uber-agent, Leigh Steinberg, and one can imagine the biggest concern the Dolphins have going into this Memorial Day weekend in the U.S. is that Williams might like Canada too much and decide not to return to the NFL at all. This much is clear. I don't know Williams, and I don't know his experience growing up in San Diego as a talented African American in a family with very young parents who divorced when he was only 6. He is a product of that experience and the others that have followed at the University of Texas and beyond, and it seems that unless we can fully understand all that brought him to this point today, its seems unreasonable not to at least initially embrace him as a person with the potential to make a very positive impact on this city. Having seen enough cliches and conformity in the often-sanitized world of pro sports, why sneer when something different this way comes? - --- MAP posted-by: Derek