Pubdate: Fri, 21 Jul 2006 Source: Island Gazette (NC) Copyright: 2005 Island Gazette Contact: http://islandgazette.net Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/3887 Author: Rachel Johnson DON'T LET DRUGS CLAIM ANOTHER VICTIM? On Thursday, July 13th, 2006 at 10:00 am hundreds of local residents gathered to remember the lives of three Pleasure Island youth who we lost last year due to drugs. The memorial service was held at the public beach access located at Hamlet Avenue in Carolina Beach. It is at this location that the Town of Carolina Beach and the Adopt-a-Beach Program placed a sign dedicated to the three beautiful young men. The Adopt-a-Beach sign is sponsored by Nicole, Alisha, Judy, Cindy, Jerri, and Jack. It reads "In Loving Memory Of: Levi Jordan Catlett DOB 12-11-87 DOD 05-07-05, John Christian Moore DOB 4-10-78 DOD 03-22-05, and Justin Lee Kelly DOB 3-21-84 DOD 7-13-05. At the bottom of the sign is the number for Coastal Horizons Crisis Line (1-800-672-2903). The memorial service was held on the one-year anniversary of the futile death of Justin Lee Kelly. The service led by his mother Jerri Kelly-Twisdale was an emotional time to grieve the loss of such a young and special life. The memorial was also a time to raise awareness in the local community about the real and present threat posed by drugs in our community. "The death of a loved one due to drugs has been so very hard to talk about. These children were greatly loved and all our hopes and dreams died with them. Everyday without them is the hardest thing you'll ever have to deal with.in the last weeks we lost four more children to heroine and one to cocaine. It can happen to anyone at anytime and your whole world will change forever. One year ago on this day, I lost my beautiful son Justin Lee Kelly. His dad, brother, and myself will never be the same, but we can fight this disease of drugs and hopefully help each other," said an emotional Jerri Kelly-Twisdale. Keith and Rachel Thompson, who lost their beautiful daughter Blaire Thompson, also spoke to the crowd on behalf of the DAMMADD organization. Everyone who attended the service received a flower donated by Wendell Thomas; there were 500 flowers. After the speakers concluded bringing their message to the audience, there was a paddle out held in Justin's honor. The waters became filled with lives Justin had touched during his short life. As each person placed a flower in the surf and others swam and paddled out to place them amongst the waves, each and every heart was filled with the sadness of missing Justin Kelly and the others lost to drugs. There were decals remembering Justin for sale for $3 each and all proceeds were donated to DAMMADD. The question on everyone's mind remained how can we stop this from happening again? Keith Thompson addressed the crowd and spoke of the methods DAMMADD is taking to prevent this vicious loss of young lives. DAMMADD stands for dads and mad moms against drug dealer and is a grassroots anti-drug organization committed to helping in the fight against the drug problem in our communities, our workplaces, and our schools. The purpose of the organization is to put drug dealers behind bars and provide people with a place to leave anonymous tips that may save the lives of our youth. So far to date the DAMMADD organization has received 2,443 tips that have led to 76 arrests and 36 convictions with over $10,100 given out as rewards for information leading to the convictions. "The DAMMADD program works in two ways: 1) We pay rewards for tips about drug activity that lead to the arrest and conviction of drug dealers. Tips can be provided through the use of this site (http://www.dammadd.org). All information will be kept anonymous, = so your safety is ensured. 2) We are committed to doing presentations to raise drug awareness throughout the country, reaching as many people as possible. Ours is a message of empowerment. We not only discuss with young people the dangers of drugs, we also give them a tool they can use to stop drug activity in its tracks." "In environments where drugs are prevalent, fear is used to suppress action. Using our system, people can feel secure that any information they give us will be kept strictly anonymous. With the added benefit of a cash reward, we hope to give people the incentive to fight back against the drug activity that is destroying families, friends, and communities. It is time the drug dealers began to look over their shoulders, began to fear leaving their homes. Every person they see on the street could be the one that sends them to jail - without ever leaving their home, without ever giving their name. No violent conflicts, no retribution. Information is the weapon of the 21st century. Finally, our communities have a safe way to fight back." Keith Thompson is the North Carolina Director of the organization. Keith and Rachel Thompson are the parents of Blaire Thompson who tragically died of an overdose in a Wilmington hotel room. Blaire Thompson was not your typical drug addict; she graduated magna c laude from UNCW and taught school in Pender County. She was pursing her masters in education when she died. Keith and Rachel Thompson tried everything to get their beloved daughter off of heroine, but to no avail. They are now pushing for a law to fight drug addiction at its source. "They get the drugs from a drug dealer, and they are the people making money. Everybody else loses. In the case of our daughter, she lost her life. Everybody loses except the dealer. Now we're going to let the dealer share in the cost of drugs," said Keith Thompson. The Thompson's have found support in Senator Julia Boseman who introduced a bill called the Blaire Thompson Act that would hold drug dealers civilly liable for the harm they cause. Victim's families could go after the dealers' cars, their homes, or any other assets of value. The economic costs of drug addiction are enormous and there is no way to quantify the loss of losing a loved one. Drug dealer liability laws are already on the books in 14 other states. Currently there are already stiff penalties for committing drug crimes within 300 feet if a school. Senator Boseman would like to increase the protected area to 1,000 feet and set minimum bails after drug arrests to keep suspects in jail longer. She would also like to increase the penalty for drug sales that result in deaths like Blaire Thompson's. Take a moment and remember the families of these young men and women who are suffering everyday with the loss of a child or sibling or parent due to drugs. The pain must stop and the only way that can happen is if you get involved. There is no reason these young lives should have been lost and it is time to stand up and stop the cycle. Visit www.dammadd.org and find out how you can help make a difference and save a life. If you or someone you know needs immediate assistance don't hesitate to call 911, it could mean life or death. - --- MAP posted-by: Derek