Pubdate: Sun, 21 Oct 2007 Source: Olympian, The (WA) Copyright: 2007 The Olympian Contact: http://www.theolympian.com/legacy/services/forms/letter2editor.shtml Website: http://www.theolympian.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/319 Author: Heather Woodward STUDENTS, SCHOOLS WORK TO PREVENT DRUG ABUSE Teenagers think they're invincible. That's how Tumwater High School senior Brandy Orgill described one of the biggest obstacles to convincing young people to stay clear of alcohol and drugs. "It's a problem with kids our age," said Orgill, president of the school's new Students Against Destructive Decisions (SADD) club. "They think it won't happen to them, but in a split second your life can change." South Sound is no stranger to such life-changing -- and sometimes life-ending -- events. It's been a little more than a year since four local young people died in less than a month in car crashes in which at least some alcohol impairment was suspected. Michael Butler, 21, of Olympia died Sept. 9, 2006, when the car he was driving struck a tree. Alex Ward, 17, a North Thurston High student, died the next day when the car he was driving went over an embankment. Jeremy Cole, 26, of Lacey died about two weeks later when the car in which he was a passenger launched over an overpass guardrail and crashed upside-down on Interstate 5. Adrianne Wallace, 16, a Tumwater High School student, died Oct. 1, 2006, when the car in which she was a passenger crashed after sliding off a road. Wallace's death was partly what inspired students to get involved in a new SADD club at Tumwater High. "It kind of hit me when Adrianne died last year; before that, I didn't realize how bad it was," said Sarah Bullock, a Tumwater senior. "People are still doing it. It irks me because I don't understand why." What parents can do It's never too early for parents to start talking to their children about staying away from drugs and alcohol, said Mary Segawa, executive director of Together, a nonprofit organization aimed at preventing youth violence and substance abuse. She recommends parents at least start talking about the issue when their children are in elementary school. "By the time they're in middle school, they're going to start seeing things, and it may be a little too late to start," Segawa said. As children get older and crave more independence, parents shouldn't shy from monitoring what their children and their friends are up to, she said. "You're not invading their privacy," Segawa said. "You're watching out for their safety." Parents should know where their children are and who is going to be supervising them, said Maddy de Give, North Thurston Public Schools executive director of student support. Parents also should set an example with their own behavior, she said. In addition, de Give said parents need to help their children learn how to say "no" if peers pressure them into trying drugs or alcohol. "They need to be able to say, 'I'd much rather do this,' " de Give said. "It's a matter of giving them refusal skills and making them aware of the consequences of underage drinking and drug use." Meanwhile, if they have questions or need help with their child, parents can turn to their health care providers, the faith community and local schools for resources, de Give said. For example, there are classes offered about how parents can stay connected with their children throughout their school years. The classes open to parents across the county came about through an effort by Communities That Care, a coalition of local community groups including school districts and Together, that has worked to identify ways to help Thurston County youth stay drug- and alcohol-free. New items to watch Parents and school officials should be on the lookout for new energy drinks that contain alcohol, Segawa said. "When you look at the cans of regular energy drinks and the ones that have alcohol, you can barely tell the difference," she said. Parents also should closely monitor television shows and video games to see whether they include alcohol or drug use, Segawa said. Together staff learned about an online video game this week known as World of Warcraft in which the screen gets blurrier as its characters consume more alcohol, she said. How schools help All of North Thurston's high schools have prevention/intervention specialists that work with troubled students, some of whom have drug or alcohol problems. The district also has counselors, nurses, mental health case managers, and family and child therapists who can provide help. Several local high schools have organized "mock crash" assemblies in recent years in which students witness peers simulate a dangerous collision following a night of drinking. And many local high schools and middle schools have mentoring programs that link younger students making a transition to a new school with an older mentor. After a pilot program two years ago, the Olympia School District has started health fairs for more fifth-graders at which they learn about the risks associated with using tobacco, alcohol and drugs. The district also has an intervention program. Tumwater High's new SADD club has planned a "Red Ribbon Week" at the school starting Tuesday with help from a $175 grant from Together and matching support from the district. Club members plan to ask peers to sign a pledge to be drug- and alcohol-free. "It's so important," said Todd Caffey, a Tumwater High counselor and the club's adviser. Black Hills High School started a new effort this year called Kid Team in which counselors and administrators sit down to talk about students exhibiting worrisome behavior, such as falling asleep in class. "We want to reach out and connect with students in ways that maybe we haven't before," Assistant Principal Chris Cain said. "We're liking what we're seeing so far." - --- MAP posted-by: Derek