Pubdate: Tue, 30 Oct 2007 Source: Hattiesburg American (MS) Copyright: 2007 Hattiesburg American Contact: http://www.hattiesburgamerican.com/customerservice/contactus.html Website: http://www.hattiesburgamerican.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/1646 Author: Bettie Ross Note: Bettie Ross is Executive Director of DREAM of Hattiesburg. ADULTS MUST HELP KIDS STAY DRUG-FREE The last week of October is nationally celebrated as Red Ribbon Drug-Awareness Week. The theme for 2007 is "Look at Me, I'm Drug Free." Local schools, agencies, and individuals have engaged in drug education and awareness activities. It has been fun to visit area schools and observe the innovative ways students are presenting drug-free messages. Purvis Elementary School students celebrated "Sock it to Drugs" by wearing wild or mismatched socks the day I joined them. I was impressed with the questions students asked about our most commonly abused drug, alcohol. They listened to consequences experienced by people who abuse alcohol, tobacco or other drugs, and were encouraged to sign the Red Ribbon Pledge to make healthy, positive choices; solve disagreements without violence; and to be alcohol, tobacco, and drug-free. I visited Oak Grove fourth-grade students to emphasize refusal skills. Role playing is an entertaining way to practice ways of saying "no." It is a challenge for most of us to say "no" to friends, so planning a comfortable response is an important step to avoid risky situations. Because it is even harder to say "no" when you want to say "yes," we used candy bars during the role play activity. Fourth-graders are learning skills that will help them stay on track with their goals an entire lifetime. Learning to say "no" makes it possible to say "yes" to things we value more. I wish I had the magic touch to keep every Mississippi child and youth drug free. The encouraging fact is that a large per cent of youth do not abuse drugs. Teens need to know that not everybody uses. The statistics that concern me are compiled from SmartTrack data, a state-wide survey of students, and from other national surveys that indicate underage drinking is a significant problem. Some Mississippi students report drinking before age 13. Mississippi youth report driving a car after drinking; automobile crashes are a leading cause of death among this age group. Youths who start drinking before age 15 are five times more likely to become addicted or abuse later in life than those who began drinking on or after age 21. Youths who abuse alcohol or other drugs are at higher risk to be involved in violence, have unprotected sex and unplanned pregnancy, and experience problems in school. Just as there are many negative consequences to underage drinking, there are multiple factors involved in the choice to use. Availability of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs, peer influence, community norms, family dynamics, alternative activities, involvement in positive groups all influence the choice a young person makes. Students who choose to be drug-free often report that parent expectations influence the decisions they make. It is vital that youth learn that choices have consequences and that people who are significant to them care about the choice they make. Take time to tell the child or youth in your family, your neighborhood, your youth group, classroom, carpool or place of worship that you care about the choices they make. I have even bribed my grandchildren. One by one, we can build a drug-free community. Bettie Ross is Executive Director of DREAM of Hattiesburg. - --- MAP posted-by: Derek