Pubdate: Wed, 21 Nov 2007 Source: Revelstoke Times Review (CN BC) Copyright: 2007 Bowes Publishers Contact: http://www.revelstoketimesreview.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/2139 Author: Melissa Jameson Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/dare.htm (D.A.R.E.) Bookmark: http://www.mapinc.org/meth.htm (Methamphetamine) OPEN, HONEST TALK A KEY TO BEATING DRUG USE HERE Internet Provides A Graphic Glimpse I remember when I was in high school we had a guest speaker. I don't recall if he was talking about drinking or drugs. What has stuck in my mind throughout the years though wasn't what he said, but rather what he didn't say. He didn't give us the usual lecture on drugs and drinking being bad. He didn't read us some random statistics that had no relevance. Instead he just talked about his own experiences. He was open about what had happened. He talked to us like we already knew what he was talking about - because in many cases we did know. I have to say I was a little torn when I was told I was going to have to write this column. When it comes to drugs, I've seen things that perhaps aren't fit for print. Then again, maybe if I write them down and someone reads them the message will be that much stronger. So maybe I shouldn't tell you that I've seen cocaine make someone so wound-up that he threw his own sister against a wall. And maybe I shouldn't tell you I've watched one of my closest friends pick her skin until it bled because she was high on crystal meth. Maybe I shouldn't tell you I've seen people begging and pleading because they don't have enough money for their fix. Or that I've seen someone go back time and time again to a volatile relationship because their partner is also their supplier. Or that I once drove someone to the hospital because they were driving drunk and high, swerved to miss a cat and then ended up running into an oncoming vehicle. Or that there's a girl I went to school with who sells her body to get high and doesn't even recognise her old friends half the time. Or that I know someone who has tried time and time again to kick their addiction, but just can't seem to keep the quit. Or that I've talked to someone who had to have supervised visits with her children because she was addicted to crack. In order to even be able to visit she had to force herself to stay clean for a certain amount of time. Sometimes she couldn't even manage this and was therefore not allowed to see her own children. But I've seen these things. I know these people. In some cases the people I've mentioned have been able to pick up the pieces and now lead successful lives. Others are still struggling, and others I've lost track of and can only hope for the best, but suspect the worst. I know not only what drugs can do, but also that they don't discriminate. Drugs are addictive. That's why people do them over and over until they've lost control. And they don't care about your race, creed or how much money you have at the end of the week. I know some people who think that the things I've written about don't happen in a small town. Don't kid yourself, drugs and their effects can take hold anywhere. It makes me sad that people can be so naive. In Revelstoke, a crystal meth task force was established to help educate the public about the devastating effects of this drug. I've seen the effects of this drug first hand and I wouldn't wish the heart ache it can cause friends and family on my worst enemy. I hope that reading this column will open up the doors for discussion. I know I grew up in a household where we talked about things openly. I don't recall my parents ever outright saying "don't do drugs, drugs are bad." Instead, I remember discussing what happens to people who do drugs. No question big or small was out of bounds. I think that's perhaps why, although I spent many years around them, I never did cocaine or crystal meth. Sure, I was asked if I wanted to do a line, have a hit, but I always said no. And, funny thing, that was always totally cool with everyone else. Sometimes a picture is more powerful than a million words. The following Internet links contain videos, photos and information on a variety of drugs. Parents should be warned that some of the images are graphic and may be disturbing. The Odd Squad, www.theoddsquad.com. This website contains a preview of the video Through A Blue Lens, a video about police officers chronicling the lives of drug addicts on Vancouver's East Side. The Meth Project, www.notevenonce.com. A Website containing information about crystal meth with some very powerful videos. Click on "view ads" to see them. DARE (Drug Abuse Resistance Education), www.darebc.org. Join team DARE. - --- MAP posted-by: Steve Heath