Pubdate: Fri, 18 Apr 2008 Source: Chronicle, The (NY) Copyright: 2008 Straus Newspapers Contact: http://www.strausnews.com/the_chronicle/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/4752 Author: Linda Smith Hancharick ALARMED BY DRUG USE AMONG THE YOUNG, CHESTER PARENTS TAKE ACTION CHESTER - "I always respect my enemy," New York State Trooper Steven V. Nevel told Chester parents last week. He was talking about the neighborhood pusher. "Drug dealers aren't stupid," said Nevel, the school and community outreach coordinator out of Troop "F" in Middletown. "They are good business people. As everything in the country goes up - gas, food, and other essentials - drug prices are going down. They have a product to move, too. They are willing to cut the price to move it. Then, when the demand gets better, they'll raise the prices." Nevel came to the Chester Town Hall last Wednesday at the request of some parents who want to be vigilant about this threat to their kids. They want to know what to look for. Just like the technology that kids use every day, like cell phones and iPods, drugs and their manner of use have changed too. Michele Deshler is a concerned parent who helped organize the gathering. "We just want to help educate parents on what's going on," she said. "My father says it takes a community to raise children, and I believe that." She was surprised by Nevel's revelations. He talked of "pharm parties" and "blunts," things she and most of those in attendance never heard of. "Lock up your prescription drugs," Nevel told parents. "Kids are getting high from their parents' medicine cabinets. Ever hear of pharm parties? Kids get a punch bowl, dump the pills in the bowl, and just take them. Randomly. They don't know what they are taking." Prescription drug abuse is on the rise, Nevel said. Kids think it is safer to use prescription drugs than street drugs. But the truth is that taking drugs not prescribed for you or mixing drugs can have devastating consequences. Blunts are marijuana cigars. Kids cut open cigars, empty out the tobacco, and stuff them with pot. Drugs on the ballfield Steroids are big, too, Nevel said. And he doesn't blame the big-name athletes like Barry Bonds and Roger Clemens. One kid at a gym told Nevel that it was his dad, not athletes, that pushed him into steroid use. "His dad told him he's gotta get a scholarship or go into the Army," Nevel said. Not wanting to go into the Army, the boy planned to take steroids until he got his scholarship - but Nevel said he might not be able to quit after that. "Teenagers have very addictive personalities," he said. Athletes may stay away from drugs and alcohol to keep their bodies strong and healthy. But then, Nevel said, they see their friends indulge and still perform well on the field, so why not try it? And the first time they get home safely after drinking and driving, they feel more comfortable about doing it again. Heroin overtakes crack The good news is that cocaine and crack are not as big in this area as they used to be. "Crack literally is a five-minute high," Nevel said. "I've worked narcotics. An informant said crack was ten times better than the best sex she ever had. But you are always chasing that same high." The informant was an accountant and mother who tried crack once at a party and was immediately hooked. Her entire life changed. She lost her kids, her husband, and her job, Nevel said. The bad news is that there is a lot of heroin out there, along with a new product called "cheese" - a mixture of black tar heroin and Tylenol cold medicine. It's cheap - about $2 a pack - and available. Kids usually snort heroin or smoke it. "Whatever is going on in the biggest city around you is coming to your area," Nevel said. But the biggest drug of choice can be found inside most homes - alcohol. "They are hiding it in their water bottles," Nevel said. "They are walking around school drinking alcohol from water bottles." "Kids think they are invincible," said Mary Luciana, a parent and Chester Board of Education member. "That's been since the dawn of time." 'Kids lie' So what can the community do? "The community has to take it back from the kids," Nevel said. "A lot of parents are in denial. Kids lie. We want to believe them. I have a 13-year-old daughter. I go through her room. We have a responsibility to our kids. One counselor said the problem is parents - they are not parenting anymore." He tips his hat to school resource officers, police officers who are in the school with them all day long and develop a rapport with kids. Kids feel comfortable with them, Nevel said, and when kids are comfortable, they talk. Opening up communication is vital, he said. "Drugs are in the schools and don't let anyone tell you otherwise," he said. "Some kids are using them and some aren't. Your kids know who they are. Listen to them. Pay attention." - --- MAP posted-by: Larry Seguin