Pubdate: Fri, 16 Apr 2010 Source: Garden Island (Lihue, HI) Copyright: 2010 Kauai Publishing Co. Contact: http://kauaiworld.com/forms/letters/ Website: http://kauaiworld.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/964 Author: Dennis Fujimoto ROADS COME TOGETHER AT DRUG COURT GRADUATION LIHU'E - Three successful participants of the Kaua'i Drug Court program were added to a community of recovering Kaua'i Drug Court alumni Friday. James Henley, Amber Kane and Lauwae Torres were presented certificates of successful completion of the Kaua'i Drug Court program by county Prosecuting Attorney Shaylene Iseri-Carvalho; Mel Rapozo, vice president of the Friends of Kaua'i Drug Court; Drug Court Judge Calvin Murashige; and Alton Amimoto, Kaua'i Drug Court coordinator. As in the 14 other graduation ceremonies preceding Friday's, the courtroom was filled to overflowing with relatives, friends and supporters of the graduates. "It's been a long hard road," said Torres, a sentiment echoed by the other two graduates. "The turning point for me was to hear my daughter call me 'the best mom in the world.' "Up to that point, it was all about me, me, me," Torres said. "I thought what I was doing was right," she said. "I was doing a lot of drugs, stealing and lying (to support the habit). My child was with my parents and I had no worries." Friday, Torres celebrated 656 days of being clean and sober, said Drug Court Probation Officer ToriAnn Laranio. "I was a menace to my friends, family, and to people I didn't even know," Kane said. "My grandpa passed away in 2000 and two months later, I was into ice, alcohol, weed and pills." After induction into the Kaua'i Drug Court, Kane continued to be defiant, accumulating four felony charges and fighting introduction into a treatment facility on O'ahu. "My mom tried to change me and went to hell and back," Kane said. But after successfully completing the in-patient program, Kane graduated on Sept. 11, the birthday of her deceased grandfather. That was a turning point in her life, she said. "It took an old man and Alcoholics Anonymous to make me become happy," Kane said. "Today I don't need to go to drugs because no matter where I turn, there is someone to show me how to stay straight." Kane believes Jack Viohl, a Drug Court probation officer, was the last person to believe in her. "You believed in me when others had given up," Kane told Viohl. "Because of you, I made a 180 (degree) turn (a term used by Araceli Gonzalez of the Kaua'i Drug Court)." Lenny Rapozo, representing Kaua'i Mayor Bernard Carvalho Jr., charged the graduates with remembering where they came from and the hard work it took to get to this point. He also noted the contributions Kaua'i Drug Court participants give back to the community as a demonstration of the program's success. In October, Drug Court participants repainted the old Koloa courthouse with a crew of 20 students working for about four hours. Some 19 participants spent four hours at Kapa'a Beach Park, repainting the restroom facilities, pavilion and benches on March 19. Over the years, Kaua'i Drug Court participants have cleaned up Hanama'ulu Beach Park eight times, Nawiliwili Harbor two times, and the Gateway Project fronting Lihu'e Airport three times, Rapozo said. "This has saved the county more than 200 man hours and more than $110,000," said Rapozo, director of the county Department of Parks and Recreation. "This is a demonstration of the success of the program in the community." Viohl said the one common denominator among the 92 alumni of 15 Kaua'i Drug Court graduations is they have come to a place of acceptance. That acceptance has made it possible for them to make a decision, to remain clean and sober. "When most of us wait for an answer, we expect it to be 'yes' or 'no,'" Viohl said. "But a recovering addict can not afford to expect anything other than 'maybe.' Maybe I'll use drugs tomorrow, but right now I'm just going to focus on today. Maybe tomorrow I'll lose my job, but today, I have one. Maybe I won't have enough money to pay my bills this month, but today I can pay this one." Viohl said most people cannot deal with "maybe" because life is fast-paced, even on Kaua'i. "Most of us are impatient and impulsive because opportunities come and go, and the world wants an answer now, yes or no," Viohl said. "The recovering addict has to wait. They have to accept life on life's terms. For the recovering addict acceptance isn't dealing with the outcome, it's never knowing what the outcome is, and living life to the fullest, or just getting by, the best they can, each day. "The recovering addict has to make a tough choice each day. When they wake up each morning, the question is the same - 'will I use drugs today?' And for the sake of their survival, they must come to the conclusion that they will not use today. Beyond that, they can make no promise for tomorrow." Viohl cited Matthew 6:34: "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." In 2006, the Kaua'i Drug Court graduates decided to create a group now known as the Kaua'i Drug Court Alumni, whose goal is to assist in creating drug-free functions, to support each other by appearing at court hearings and any other way to support participants. This volunteerism by alumni is one of the keys to the success of the Kaua'i Drug Court, said Amimoto. In a time of budget cuts, Amimoto said whatever crisis the program goes through, he hopes the program will continue and "not one ounce of quality is lost." Henley said, "I hope the program continues because it helped save me, and if it can save me, how many others can it save?" - --- MAP posted-by: Keith Brilhart