Pubdate: Thu, 27 May 2010 Source: Oceanside Star (BC) Copyright: 2010 Oceanside Star Contact: http://www.canada.com/oceansidestar/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/4880 Author: Brad Bird 'POT BAD': SKID ROW CEO Joe Roberts grew up in a loving middle-class home in Midlands, Ont. - -- yet all it took were a few wrong choices in his teens and he ended up on skid row. There was nothing his parents could have done differently to prevent his slide into drugs and crime, he told a joint meeting of the Qualicum Beach and Parksville Chambers of Commerce Thursday in the Qualicum Beach Civic Centre. It was his own actions that got him in trouble, but others and his own efforts got him out of it, he told the 200 present. Contrary to popular belief, "Pot isn't a harmless drug," he said, as it blurs the mind and makes it easier to slide into harder drugs while high on grass. Sleeping under a bridge in Vancouver's east side, he got to the point where all he wanted was $10 for a fix. The day he hit rock bottom he sold his shoes. Then his family, whom he'd alienated, suggested he come home for a visit. He returned to Ontario, went into rehab, enrolled in Loyalist College, graduated on the dean's list and got a job with Minolta selling photocopiers. In the late 1990s he got in on the ground floor with a company that took off during the dot-com blitz and suddenly he was a rising CEO. By age 35 he'd made his first million and today he spends his time speaking to adults and kids in an effort to turn lives around. His fee for this speech went to a youth foundation, he said. His advice was leavened by humour and self-effacement and Roberts connected with the crowd, which gave him a standing ovation. Live a goal-oriented life. Make every day count. Negotiate what you want. There's more to you than you can see. "People will forget what you say and what you do, but people will never forget how you make them feel," he said. At age 11 he met and shook the hand of Terry Fox as he ran his way across southern Ontario, and it left him with a residue of hope. In July of 1991, living out of a shopping cart and sleeping under a bridge, he began looking "for the better part of me. I found it partly because of the better part of you," he said, honouring the help he got from others. His book Don't Buy the Lie About Getting High exhorts youth to avoid the pitfalls that killed many of those he knew on skid row, and almost claimed him. When one of the younger people in the audience, student Alicia Vanin, asked him what exactly we could do as individuals to inspire hope in others, he said: "Good question. The best thing we can do is lead by example. Get involved in volunteerism... Every single one of us has a story to tell and a passion... Get out there and get involved." - --- MAP posted-by: Jay Bergstrom