Pubdate: Thu, 06 Oct 2011 Source: Standard-Times (New Bedford, MA) Copyright: 2011 South Coast Media Group Contact: http://www.southcoasttoday.com/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/422 Author: Diane Bolton LEGAL MARIJUANA MEANS PLENTY MORE PROBLEMS Today's infants and children are the beneficiaries of the drug and sex revolution. In many cases their young lives are spent in hell's kitchen. They can't perform well in school because they can't pay attention or calm down. The potheads of the old guard don't know what they don't know. If they had to review the in-depth studies of the harm of smoking "weed" or tobacco, they couldn't pay attention long enough to absorb the basic facts if they wanted to. They simply want to legalize "pot" so they can continue their addiction by smoking it, not getting arrested and looking like heroes doing it ("Barney Frank looks to remove another taboo," Sept. 13). Addiction and selfishness go hand in hand. No matter how harmful the substance or behavior, they, the addicted slaves, don't care because that is the definition of addiction. The suggestion that medical science has no medication for nausea is a manipulative ploy once again characteristic of the addicted mind set. This is not the kind of decision-making children need. They need role models to help them steer clear of the dangers of "tuning out and turning on." At a certain stage, over 50 perhaps, one needs to get in the practice of getting up in the morning to think of others and what you can do to help them. It isn't about "me, me, me" anymore. As Abraham Maslow affirmed in his observations of the older adult life stages; there are the healthy expressions of generativity or the unhealthy impulses of stagnation. To survive and thrive, children need the leaders of family and society expressing generativity. Children do not need selfish, addicted and stagnating potheads afraid of death running their lives. I speak of the needs of the children because they are the ones left to dig out of the dregs the "me generation" has left behind. Don't you think we should be more focused on their future and leaving them a healthy society? Diane Bolton New Bedford - --- MAP posted-by: Richard R Smith Jr.