Pubdate: Sat, 05 Jan 2013 Source: StarPhoenix, The (CN SN) Copyright: 2013 The StarPhoenix Contact: http://www.canada.com/saskatoonstarphoenix/letters.html Website: http://www.canada.com/saskatoonstarphoenix/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/400 Author: Betty Ann Adam Page: A4 MOTHER PETITIONS FOR CHANGE SASKATOON - A grieving Saskatoon mother wants the community to join her in demanding the government help parents protect their teenage children from lethal drug addictions. Chantaey Katchmar was 16 when she died from an overdose last July. Her mother, Carla Fenton Katchmar, wonders why the law gives teens the right to refuse treatment that could save their lives when their adolescent brains haven't finished developing and they're incapacitated by a physical disease that's overtaken their rational decision making. "It lowers her age capability to, like, 13," Fenton Katchmar said. She wonders why society fails to protect such children from their own bad decisions. Addictions expert Colleen Dell says it's an important question. "This is not an individual's problem, but a community problem," said Dell, who is the Research Chair in Substance Abuse at the University of Saskatchewan. "That's not something we pay a lot of high priority to. We still put a lot of stigma on the individual who's using, (but) it's not about choice if a person is in that state," she said. Addiction is officially recognized as a disease, but those afflicted don't receive the same empathy as people with cancer, she said. "There's a lot of misunderstanding and we don't put in as much effort toward the resources (addicts) need." Families, peers and friends need to stop looking the other way and talk openly about behaviours. Blaming won't help, she said. "We know hands down from research the way people get better is they're supported," Dell said. Addicts and their families need non-judgmental friends to lend an ear, help plan a course of action, find resources and follow up with encouragement, she said. The courts and prisons are full of people who wouldn't be there if they could stop using alcohol or other drugs, she said. "Why aren't we, as a society, doing more about this? It's costing us billions and billions a year," she said. It was estimated in 2004 that smoking, alcohol and drugs were costing Canadians $43 billion per year, she said. Fenton Katchmar has started a petition asking the province to give parents the power to force their severely addicted children into locked, long-term treatment. A handful of small businesses around the city have the petition on their counters and a website, www.chantaeysstory.com , asks visitors to add their names to an online petition. - --- MAP posted-by: Jay Bergstrom