Pubdate: Wed, 28 Jan 2015 Source: Vancouver Sun (CN BC) Copyright: 2015 Postmedia Network Inc. Contact: http://www.canada.com/vancouversun/ Details: http://www.mapinc.org/media/477 Author: Kim Bolan Page: A5 Referenced: Myths: Selling a little bit of drugs isn't a big deal (VIDEO): https://www.youtube.com/watch?vnRY_PczCbA&feature=youtu.be Referenced: Myths: As a gangster's girl, you'll have everything you want (VIDEO): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zsel8cihl6w&feature=youtu.be Referenced: Myths: You'll have plenty of friends and respect (VIDEO): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnfXYp9GwB8&feature=youtu.be Referenced: Myths: Someone will always have your back (VIDEO): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=honr-I5EzgM&feature=youtu.be Referenced: Myths: You'll live a long and happy life (VIDEO): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmrY5G3byhY&feature=youtu.be Referenced: Myths: No one in 'my' family would be in a gang (VIDEO): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O9ipNKnSdQ&feature=youtu.be GRIEVING VANCOUVER MOTHERS SPEAK OUT ABOUT GANG LIFE Video Campaign Created to Help End the Bloodshed Two Metro Vancouver mothers who lost their children to gang violence six years ago say they hope a new anti-gang video campaign will help steer youth away from the deadly lifestyle. Brianna Kinnear's mother Carol is featured in a video campaign aimed at steering youth away from gang violence. In the videos, she talks about Brianna, who was shot dead at 22 in 2009. Carol Kinnear, who's featured in six videos created by the Combined Forces Special Enforcement Unit and Odd Squad Productions, says she wants to spare other parents from the devastating pain that has rocked her family. Kinnear's daughter Brianna - who had been dating gangster Jesse Margison - was shot to death in Coquitlam on Feb. 3, 2009. No one has been charged in her death. She was 22. "We live with this tragedy every single day and it is just a heartache that I don't really want any other parent to go through," Kinnear said in an interview. "I don't want any other child to put their parents through it. So I thought maybe it's time for me to try to put a message out there." Desiree Desjardins echoed Kinnear. In the videos, she describes the aftermath of losing son Sean Murphy on March 31, 2009, when he was gunned down in Abbotsford. He was 21. "This was the right thing to do to honour Sean and to be able to make a difference," Desjardins said of the video project. "There is a huge stereotype out there about who these kids are ... that stereotype is not true. It's everyone's child that can and sometimes does get involved in this." Kinnear said that young women should understand they're not safe if they date someone involved in the gang world. "Brianna was a girlfriend. She was involved in it somewhat, but she wasn't involved like some of the major players. The girlfriends are not invincible and she thought she was invincible," Kinnear said. The videos - each seven to 10 minutes long - will be used in schools and community forums and are also available online at endganglife.ca. They feature homicide investigator Sgt. Bari Emam, Abbotsford police Chief Bob Rich and former gang members. "These videos mark a significant milestone for gang prevention and education in British Columbia," CFSEU Chief Supt. Kevin Hackett said. "Gangs and gang violence tear families and communities apart but all too often, despite the warnings and violence, we hear of young people getting involved in gangs. It is critical that we hear from those directly involved or affected by the ravages of gangs and dispel the many myths if we are going to end gang life in our province." Desjardins said Sean was just 17 when someone at his school convinced him to sell marijuana. Kids get involved without understanding where it will lead, she said. Both moms hope that the video release may lead to new information for investigators in the unsolved murders of their children. "Maybe I can reach other people who know something who may be ready to talk," Kinnear said. "The police know who did it. They just don't have enough (evidence) to take to (the) Crown." - --- MAP posted-by: Jay Bergstrom