Source: The Washington Post Author: Don Oldenburg, Washington Post Staff Writer Page: B06 Pubdate: Tue, 10 Mar 1998 KIDS & ALCOHOL A CONTROVERSIAL ALTERNATIVE TO 'JUST SAY NO' Along the road to adulthood, most teenagers drink alcoholic beverages. Most of them get drunk; some of them often. This is known from experience and from troubling statistics that try to measure the severity of alcohol abuse among America's youth today. In recent years, surveys have told us that 44 percent of college students report binge drinking (five drinks in a row). They tell us that 56 percent of eighth-graders and 71 percent of 10th-graders report that they have used alcohol; that 28 percent of high school seniors say they have consumed five or more drinks in one sitting in the previous two weeks. The sobering reality is that, with the exception of ubiquitous don't-drink-and-drive warnings, too many teenagers drink too much with too little regard to the consequences and risks. This message is tragically restated year after year when one more vodka-chugging fraternity pledge chokes to death on his own vomit, or yet another drunk collegian falls from a window, or the next carload of drunk high schoolers plows head-on into a tree. >From last week's vote in the U.S. Senate to enact a nationally uniform .08 percent blood-alcohol DWI law, to the alcohol-abuse initiatives now started on nearly every university campus, there is a new urgency among civic leaders, safety and medical authorities, college administrators -- even some students -- to do something to curb underage drinking. But the best intervention may not come on campuses, in counselors' offices, or by laws and prohibitions. Some alcohol-education experts believe that to dissuade youngsters from abusing alcohol, there's no place like home. "You have to recognize that the majority of young people are going to experiment. And, on occasion, they are going to drink too much," says David Hanson, professor of sociology at State University of New York at Potsdam. The author of the 1997 book "Alcohol Education: What We Must Do" (Praeger, $49), Hanson has studied the use and abuse of alcohol among young people for three decades. His conclusion: Parents need to teach their children about alcohol and the risks of excessive drinking. And, saying "don't drink" doesn't begin to cover it. "They are much safer if you introduce them to drinking yourself," says Hanson. "That's how you protect them." Part of the problem is that alcohol education in this country is dominated by zero-tolerance thinking that Hanson says ignores reality, uses scare tactics, and has proven itself to be ineffective. "We've got these two conflicting views," he explains. "One says 'Just say no' and the other says 'Learn how to drink appropriately.' The just-say-no orientation tries to prevent students from drinking or to delay the onset of drinking . . . and that's swimming against the cultural tide and the experience of young people and adults." One argument against teaching young people moderation in drinking is that drinking is illegal under age 21. "But we teach civics to people in middle school to prepare them to be responsible citizens -- and they can't vote or hold office," argues Hanson. "We wouldn't turn driver education over to your kids' peers; we don't tell them nothing about driving and then turn the keys over to them when they're old enough. But people actually do that with drinking." Some sex education programs do emphasize abstinence, he adds. "There's nothing wrong with teaching kids abstinence. But, hopefully, those teenagers who don't heed the message won't get pregnant and won't get a disease because they have also been prepared." Harvard social psychologist Henry Wechsler says youngsters need to be made aware of the dangers of drinking too much. And that's especially true, he says, of aspiring college students who are heading into the highest-volume consumption zone, the college campus, where liquor laws traditionally are ignored, alcohol is readily available, and peer pressure to drink large quantities is intense. "Young people drink more than people of other ages," says Wechsler, whose research investigates collegiate binge drinking. "College students drink more than their high school peers who didn't go to college." But educating teenagers about moderate drinking and about the dangers of excess "is a very complex issue," says Wechsler. "When kids go to college, you want them to be on their own. You want them to form their own choices. But you've got to guide them. You have to try to remove risks to the extent that you can." The latest alarm to send shock waves through those studying alcohol and youth issues was the release of the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) study three weeks ago that reported the younger someone starts drinking, the greater the chance of alcoholism later in life. Dwight B. Heath says that finding fuels the just-say-no approach he blames for much of the allure of drinking among American teenagers. "In countries where people start to drink at an early age, alcohol is not a mystical, magical thing," says the professor of anthropology at Brown University. The author of the "International Handbook on Alcohol and Culture," he has studied drinking practices and problems in different cultures worldwide over three decades. He has recently received some funding from the International Center for Alcohol Policies, an industry-related group that studies and promotes alcohol's cultural and social roles and the reduction of alcohol abuse. "By banning it [until age 21], we make it clear those people who start drinking before that age are deviant, countercultural, breaking-the-law-and-knowing-it risk takers." In other words, it's just what many teenagers aspire to -- a symbol of being grown up, of being in reaction against their parents' generation, against authority. "We have set it up for problems," he says. "In cultures that don't set it up for problems, where it is by and large accepted, people don't drink to get drunk because they know that's a stupid thing to do. In much of our youth here, you have the idea of drinking precisely to get drunk. And that's a dangerous business." Acting badly, stepping into traffic, getting into fights, indulging in unprotected sex, getting into automobile accidents, "there are all kinds of risks that go with drunkenness that don't go with moderate social drinking," says Heath, who urges parents to teach their children how not to drink and how to drink in a sane and sensible manner. "It's not how much you drink, it's how you drink." David Hanson advises parents to start earlier than the teen years -- especially since the average age youngsters start experimenting is 13. "You need to start from their earliest consciousness by being a good role model," he says. "So you don't get drunk, you don't laugh at jokes that involve drunkenness. When you're watching television, point out what's right and what's wrong about drinking -- and the consequences of getting drunk. Similarly, if you abstain from alcohol, as many people do, teach your children abstinence -- but also teach them some risk reductions, just in case." Some practical advice beyond never drink and drive that parents should give children? Warn against drinking for the sake of drinking, or as a game, experts recommend. Warn against drinking to forget one's troubles. Drinking on an empty stomach is a bad idea. So is drinking more than one alcoholic beverage per hour -- about the limit most people can handle without becoming impaired. Teach them to know when they've had enough and how to stop. Tell them not to leave alone someone who is drunk. They need to know that drinking too much too fast can be fatal, that the alcohol itself can poison their system and shut down their breathing. "I think the dangers of drunkenness are very real -- unlike the dangers of drinking," says Heath, who espouses taking alcohol education in the home to a level some would say is controversial. He recommends parents who are comfortable with the idea emulate the ordinary practice of French, Greek and Italian homes where youngsters are introduced to watered-down wine or a sip of beer early in life. "In the privacy of their homes, many people would do well, in effect, to teach their kids how to drink appropriately," says Heath, who believes that helps to trivialize drinking and undermine its mystique. "Perhaps serve a little bit to them on occasion. In some states, that's against the law. But drinking in small volume really needs to be part of their education." When Heath hears about another alcohol tragedy, he is all the more convinced that alcohol education begins at home: "Drawing clear and realistic guidelines is the business of parents and society." © Copyright 1998 The Washington Post Company