Source: The Observer (UK) Copyright: Guardian Media Group plc. 1999 Pubdate: Sun, 10 Jan 1999 Contact: http://www.guardian.co.uk/ Author: Richard Thomas THE NEW BRITS: SINGLE, STONED AND SELFISH They are both single. He lives alone, feeding off takeaways between 12-hour shifts at the office. She is divorced and juggles care for her daughter with a demanding career. Both have taken drugs, both have jobs in financial services and neither belongs to a trade union. Welcome to the new British way of life. A comprehensive analysis of the state of our society shows that family life is declining in importance, the growth of communications makes geographical distances less significant, people are eschewing gender and age stereotypes - - and cats have overtaken dogs as the modern Briton's pet of choice. Britain 1999, published by the Office for National Statistics, shows that the size of the average household is now 2.4, down from 3.1 at the beginning of the 1960s. The proportion of households made up of single people has risen from 14 per cent to 27 per cent - with the fastest growth in single male adult households. Divorce plays a large part: the UK leads the European league table for marital breakdowns. Women make up 45 per cent of the workforce, and now return to work more quickly after having children. But they are still bumping against a glass ceiling: women make up 5 per cent of company directors, 7 per cent of university professors and 10 per cent of judges. Trade unions, once the voice of male manufacturing workers, now attract 30 per cent of the workforce. Both men and women are marrying later and living longer, with life expectancy rising by two years for every post-war decade, the Office for National Statistics found. Martin Hayward, director of consumer consultancy at the Henley Centre and a social and economic forecaster, says age and gender are becoming less important in the way people live their lives. One sign of this is a move to study later in life - 50 per cent of university students are now over 25. Hayward says that social, economic and demographic changes have also downgraded the family. 'In the 1960s, people were married in their early twenties and had three kids, so a huge chunk of their life was family time. 'Today we are getting married in our late twenties, having one and a bit kids - reducing the child-focused period - and then living 10 years longer at the end. We are probably more selfish, with less of our life taken up by other people.' Communications technology has revolutionised the home: 35 per cent of households own an answerphone or subscribe to a voicemail service; 29 per cent own a computer, 15 per cent are on the Internet and 22 per cent own at least one mobile phone. We have become more financially cautious, putting more money into pensions and life assurance policies - these now account for 36 per cent of our net personal wealth, up from 24 per cent 10 years ago. But dreams of serious riches still prompt 75 per cent of households to regularly buy tickets for the National Lottery draw. Spending on leisure pursuits has grown by more than 20 per cent this decade. Eating out, visits to the cinema and fitness pursuits are on the rise, although one in five men list snooker or pool as their physical activity in the last month. The same proportion of women list yoga. At home, television remains the favourite activity: 80 per cent of teenagers have one in their room and 82 per cent of households own a video recorder. Two-thirds of us have a CD player, up from 15 per cent at the end of the 1980s. But despite the rise of electronic entertainment, libraries remain strong, with 60 per cent of adults carrying a library card and 500 million books borrowed a year. Other traditions are tumbling. One in 10 Britons now attends a religious service on a weekly basis, while half never, or scarcely ever, do. Even the bulldog is under threat: the nation's 7 million pet dogs are now outnumbered by 8 million cats - --- MAP posted-by: Richard Lake