Pubdate: Monday, 15 Nov 1999 Source: Daily News of Los Angeles (CA) Copyright: 1999 Daily News of Los Angeles Address: P.O. Box 4200, Woodland Hills, CA 91365 Fax: (818)713-3723 Feedback: http://www.DailyNews.com/contact/letters.asp Website: http://www.DailyNews.com/ Author: Lisa Van Proyen, and Steve Carney, Staff Writers FAMILIES STRUGGLE TO MAKE SENSE OF VA SHOOTING SAN FERNANDO -- Philip Goins and Armando Ballesteros each returned from Army service in the Vietnam War with heroin addictions. And each shared the frustrations of long waits at the Sepulveda Veterans Administration Medical Center where they were undergoing methadone treatment. But a day before Veterans Day, Goins no longer could contain his frustration and anger, tragically directing it at Ballesteros, a man who police said he barely knew. Goins shot Ballesteros in front of the methadone clinic and then killed himself. Ballesteros' death came as he struggled to overcome addiction and put his life back together. He was a churchgoing man, with a daughter, according to family and friends. Goins died as he surrendered to bitter memories of the war, frustration with the Veterans Administration, and the pain and hopelessness of addiction, according to police and witnesses. For both families, the shootings made no sense. A day after the shootings, a neighbor passed by the Ballesteroses' yard, filled with about 20 grieving family members. He asked Armando Ballesteros Sr., himself a veteran of World War II, what had happened. "We don't know exactly," he said. "Here I was shot twice in the Army, and I made it. Fifty-four years later, my son gets shot by a bullet, and he's not in a war but at the VA hospital." His brother, Freddie Ballesteros, said he understands how long waits at the veteran's center can be frustrating. "My brother has waited there for 10 hours. You could see how some of these veterans would get crazy. My brother was getting discouraged with the treatment," he said. But it shouldn't have driven Goins to shoot someone, he said. "Something more should have been done. I feel bad for his family. Not only do they have a death, but he killed somebody else," he said. Goins' mother also was in mourning. She said there is another side to her son. "He had a stack of people who he helped," she said, without elaborating. "He donated money to organizations and he sponsored a child in Tennessee." She also told detectives that he felt like he was up against a wall when talking to VA officials about his medical benefits. "He was upset for a while about benefits from the VA that he had applied for at the hospital," said Los Angeles police Detective Mel Heissel. "Whether it was real or imagined, we haven't confirmed that." What caused Goins to shoot Ballesteros remains unclear. The two were acquainted but didn't have a problem with each other -- until that day. Los Angeles police Detective Mike Oppelt said witnesses described the gunman as "a time bomb waiting to go off." Goins confronted Ballesteros and, despite attempts by at least one bystander to intervene, he pulled out a handgun and fired about four shots at Ballesteros, according to police and witnesses. Goins then fled in his car, hitting another car and abandoning the vehicle in the 10300 block of Haskell Avenue. With police in pursuit, Goins hid in the laundry room of Jefferson Smith's house. Smith, who didn't know Goins, tried to talk to the veteran. "He turned around with a gun in his hand. He never pointed it at me -- and with this wild look on his face he said, 'I came here to die,"' Smith recalled. Goins identified himself as a Vietnam veteran and said the VA had cut off his monthly check. "He was going on and on about the VA. They were just hassling him," Smith said. A fidgety Goins told him that he wasn't going to see another Veteran's Day. "I tried to talk him out of it," Smith said. "Hey, man," he said he told Goins, "there's no sense in this. It can't be that bad." But it was that bad. "He said he shot a drug addict is what he said. He didn't want to kill the guy, but he was just pissing him off," Smith said. "He asked me to call his mother. He wanted his brother to have his medals." Then one officer with a shotgun approached Smith's yard. "I said, they're here, and he shot himself," Smith said. For Ballesteros' family, the shooting has left a huge hole in their lives. "He was like a father to my kids when I wasn't there," said Ballesteros' son-in-law, Luis Hernandez. He walked them to school every day, took them to the park and helped them with their homework. He lived with his mother, Antonia, 78, and his father, Armando Sr., 79, in the 600 block of O'Melveny Avenue in San Fernando, where he was born and raised. He had stopped drinking alcohol for six months -- about as long as he had been attending Sunday services at the Catholic church down the street, family members said. "He was getting his life back together," his brother said. His family called him a quiet, gentle person who didn't talk much about his war days. "He was just glad to be home after the war," his brother said. Ballesteros had a daughter and worked as a fabricator at Lockheed. Though he stumbled at times with his drug and alcohol addictions, his family said he constantly worked to better his life for his family, including the two little passions in his life -- his grandchildren. Ballesteros' mother and father said their son, nicknamed "Mandito," was not the type to argue with others. "He didn't bother anybody. I never had any problems with him," his father said. - --- MAP posted-by: Keith Brilhart