Pubdate: Wed July 7, 1999 Source: Danbury News-Times Copyright: 1999 The Danbury News-Times (CT) Contact: 333 Main Street Danbury, CT 06810 Fax: (203) 792-8730 Website: http://www.newstimes.com/ Author: Hugh Bailey NEW FAIRFIELD HIGH FORUM TARGETS VIOLENCE (New Fairfield)-In the wake of a bomb threat at the high school last month, a community coalition was formed to help solve the problem of youth violence. Last night, it held a forum to address those issues. Town and school officials pinpointed what they think are key issues, along with possible solutions. School Superintendent Kathleen Matusiak said behavior in school can be a reflection of home life. A small group of parents and residents attended last night's meeting in the high school library. "What happens in school is often a carryover of what parents do, or don't do, in the home," she said. "We have to identify what we do well and continue it, as well as instituting new programs." Matusiak said peer mentoring, adult mentoring and a school safety committee are important in preventing violence. She said the state legislature last year ordered all schools to develop prevention programs. Nearly 1,500 students were evacuated from the high school and middle school June 2 because of a bomb threat by a high school student who was later arrested for breach of peace and threatening. First Selectman Patty Gay said the town is progressing well in promoting safety. "I'm the mother of two children in New Fairfield schools, and I've seen that we are ahead of many other towns," she said. She said a decision to have a full-time officer at the school is an important step. "This is a vital, visible role model for the students," she said. Joanne Pierleoni, president of the Meeting House School PTO, said it tries to focus on the positive actions of students to avoid violence. "We focus on kindness, and doing good works," she said. "When a child does an act of kindness, they are rewarded, and their name is announced on the P.A. (public address) system. "The kids love it." She said it is important to involve students and parents together. "We try to improve communications with the children and the parents. It is important for you (the parents) to let us know what programs you want." Sharon Shea, substance abuse counselor with the school system, said drugs can increase student violence. "When people drink, their personality changes and they get more aggressive," she said. Marijuana can make people stuff their feelings, because they don't know how to cope. The feelings can build up, and eventually they go off." She said an increasing tolerance of violence in society has raised the level of violence among young people. Matusiak said the school is looking into different solutions, including a zero-tolerance policy on violence, aimed at stopping trouble before it starts. - --- MAP posted-by: manemez j lovitto