Pubdate: Sun, 18 July 1999 Source: Orange County Register (CA) Copyright: 1999 The Orange County Register Contact: http://www.ocregister.com/ Author: Janed Sax DARE TO PREVENT DEATH FROM DRUG ABUSE Having lost my treasured son three years ago to a drug overdose, I feel compelled to comment on Alan Bock's article, "Do we DARE sav(sic) it?" [Commentary, June 13], as well as John Boag's letter criticizing both the DARE program and the Huntington Beach Police Department [June 15]. My main concern is that parents of elementary, middle school and high school age children support their children's participation in the DARE program and not be influenced negatively by articles like Bock's The one truism in the article is that 17 weeks of exposure to a program in the fifth grade will not solve the problem of substance abuse. No single program could be expected to address such a multifactorial problem. DARE is not meant to substitute for parents as role models for their children, but rather to augment parental influence. Many parents simply do not have the information or experience necessary to educate their children about the dangers of drugs, leaving them feeling powerless. The DARE program provides parents both with this information and with educational tools to use in the home. The program is based on sound, well-tested psychological theories promoting assertiveness, decision-making and resistance to peer pressure and is implemented at an age when most children have not become resistant to authority figures. The Bock article compares apples (costs), oranges (unrelated studies), grapefruits (semantics) and lemons (politics of marijuana use) and concludes with a fruit salad of misleading ideas and statistics. The Rand study of unrelated programs is used to criticize DARE, which the study did not test. Furthermore, the Rand study did not validate Bock's premise that treatment is superior to prevention. To categorically state that treatment is the most "cost-effective" approach to drug abuse and thus to question continued support of DARE misses the point in human and practical terms. It is also an inaccurate interpretation of unrelated statistics that could be presented to support whatever conclusions the writer intended. Since my son's death at age 29, I have exhaustively examined my role as a mother, searching for answers as to what I could have done differently to prevent him from suffering the pain of drug addiction. I have been particularly drawn to the positive work done by the DARE officers in Huntington Beach and to other local programs aimed at substance abuse prevention. My son started using drugs at a very early age at a Huntington Beach elementary school. In my attempt to be a good parent, I had warned him about riding his bike in the street, talking to strangers and wearing his jacket when it was cold. It did not occur to me, however, to warn him not to buy Valium with his milk money in the third grade. Education and awareness of the signs and symptoms of drug abuse were not available in the schools and the media then as they are today; this broader awareness is due largely to the existence of programs such as DARE. If Bock's logic and reasoning is valid, it was acceptable for my son to simply develop his addiction since it would be "cost-effective" to treat the addiction later. This is precisely what happened to my son; yet after nine separate treatment programs he still died. I have often wondered whether a DARE program at the time my son entered elementary school would have provided me and the other adults in his life with the information, insight and ability to intervene earlier and more successfully. I would have liked to have had that chance because watching a child suffer and struggle with addiction and then to receive a phone call from the coroner's office that he had died is painful beyond imagination. Substance abusers are not universally unloved or from horribly dysfunctional families; but just loving our kids is not enough. I am comforted when I see bumper stickers that read "Proud Parent of a DARE Graduate." I know that these parents are involved and have just a little bit more knowledge that may save their child's life. No program is perfect. I haven't heard any DARE officers claim their program is. DARE has undergone gradual refinement over the years and encouraged on-going studies to validate the efficacy of the program and effect positive changes. Rather that criticize DARE and call for its demise, shouldn't we all look toward even better solutions/ - --- MAP posted-by: Derek Rea